I'm sorry

[drea_butterfly]

   I am no longer in the club. People that get to know what its like to have a living being inside of them. I no longer need prenatal classes; suffer from pressure induced sciatica; Braxton hicks contractions; heartburn; stretch marks. People will no longer praise me for having such a cute little belly. My husband will no longer be able to connect

Comments

[nekonezume]

There are no words. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Don't you dare feel guilty. You haven't let anyone down. It's just one of those things and I'm sorry it had to happen to you. There was nothing you could do.

No one will blame you. People will only feel sad for your loss. Don't you blame yourself, either.

[harrisons_mom1]

Andrea Hunny, don't you blame yourself for anything, and don't let other people either. No one is safe, no matter how much they do for their bodies, until after about the 5 month mark. A lot of women have it happen. You were doing great and treating your body just fine for carrying a baby. Sometimes things just happen for what seems like no reason at all.

Don't let this make you loose hope. All those things you wanted are still possible, you just figured it would be this time.

And also, don't make yourself believe that you could have stopped it. Babies can go without movement for days and days. My cousin felt hardly anything her whole pregnancy. So there was no way for you to know.

[daughterofgod3]

Oh Andrea, this breaks my heart. I can;t imaging how it feels, though its quite emotional for me just reading about it. I know I would say the same things you did about it being my fault but its not really true. having a hot bath, or drinking coffee is OK, i'm sure your nutrition was fine too. its not your fault andrea, and this does not mean you will never be a mother. don;t blame yourself for this. i can only imagine the grieving right now. i am so sad for you and mike. no one is blaming you, or thinking you let them down. i know mike loves you just teh same. You know your heart, how you felt all the time since you found out. and i know you took care of your baby Andrea. I will be thinking of you so much. i am so sorry. Love, Cheryl

[jane_doe_in_nb]

I don't want to just leave a "oh it'll be okay" kind of comment. There's nothing I can say that will make you feel any less guilty...only time and healing will take that away...and maybe then these words will have a little more effect. It's not your fault. this is something that unfortunately was unavoidable (that we know of). You didn't do anything wrong, you did everything right. There are people that drink till they fall down drunk and spend their whole pregnancy stoned out of their minds and nothing ever happens, yet you did none of these things. Therefore....you are not to blame. You also didn't let me down or anyone else....don't ever think that. I love you and I know that you and Mike will get through this and come out stronger in the end for it.

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