I kind of expected this day would come, sooner or later

[drewandian]

And here we are...

Comments

[southernred2]

You did good young lady. And why be tactful with the dad. He's a big boy too. Can't he handle life as well as his son? Just sayin'.

[drewandian]

Thanks :) It was pretty amazing - for the first time in I don't know how long, I just kind of knew the exact right words to say. I'm not one to say this often but I definitely think it was just as much a God/Holy Spirit thing as it was I actually am a pretty good mom thing. Just one more thing I can chalk up to the shift of my focus in my life.

I feel like I should be at least tactful enough to NOT say "hey he thinks your gf is a bitch". J tends to shut down when we talk to begin with and if I come at him with something he doesn't want to hear, forget it. THere won't be any actual communication and the issue will never be resolved. It's ridiculous but I have to tip toe a little.

[sangate]

Woah well done my dear! I bow to you! No seriously, well done! Very well handled if you ask me :D

[drewandian]

Thanks! It feels good to be back on track in my mommy role and to be getting my sweet boy back! *hugs*