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[dw12wp]

I have recently come to realize that we as people are indeed superficial. Everywhere I look I see relationships with unsolid foundations and nobody even appears to give a care about it. People everywhere seem to be so overwhelmed with the idea of physical attachment, that the idea of emotional monogamy doesn't even appear to be a concern. Everyday

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[smellycat826]

Well, I can't really relate to what you're saying since Richie's my best friend--people think it's weird when I tell them that, but he honestly knows me better than anyone else, and he's the first person I run to when I need someone. We're physically and emotionally monogamous, and it's really a beautiful thing. And I'm not saying people shouldn't have separate companions and friendships, but doesn't it just make sense for your boyfriend/girlfriend to be your best friend, too? Everytime Rich goes back to Irvine, not only is my boyfriend going away, but my best friend is leaving, as well. Rich knows that, and I think that's why he and I have stayed together for so long; it's not just a physical or just emotional relationship--it's the whole package.

[dw12wp]

which is precisely what I'm talking about! :) you can't have a lasting relationship unless your in it, heart, soul, mind, and funky-get down style.

[dustydenim]

yet you ask repeatedly why everyone seems to be failing at this whole "love" thing. the problem is not everyone else, and the way THEY love, or perceive love, or handle their relationship... the problem is in YOURSELF, and how YOU are handling YOUR relationship(s). you are asking questions that you need to answer yourself, because, from what ive seen and what i know, you are the kin d of person that you are describing in all of your writing and i cannot think of anyone else who fits the description. does that sound about right? or do you feel that i am way off?

[dw12wp]

I believe that your conclusion is premature, though some of the posts are about feelings of my own, many are just thoughts that I've had about love in general, having to do with no one in particular, but encompassing love genarally. You can't know the way I love, or the way I handle my relationships, because you're hearing more than you're seeing, and words can always be twisted and flawed, maybe not purposely or maliciously, but they can be. I just think a lot, and when I think I write. So, thanks for thinking you've figured me all out, but please play again.