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[edukator]

So ummm yeah. Kinda kissed Person X...and I was hoping that I would instinctively know if it was right or wrong. But I didn't. And now I'm waiting for him to text me, wondering what he'll say. And whether I should be telling him it was a mistake, never to be repeated or that I want to see him again soon. It doesn't help that I kissed him for the

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[youwantbeef]

Maybe see where it goes? It's not the best idea though to be leading a guy on without actually having any feelings for him.

I understand you must be feeling pretty lonely to do that, but maybe it could work out? It takes time sometimes...but it could work with him if you are set on it.

If you are sure you are only going with him untill someone else better comes along, then I don't think you should continue with it, just put yourself in his place and imagine someone did that to you, would feel kinda hurtful right?

Can't wait to see you on friday, got lots to taaalk about and stuff :)
xx

[edukator]

yeah, you're right. I set him straight today when we had a little chat. I told him I wasn't going to go out with him because I didn't want a boyfriend, I like being single and because I've seen the way he's treated other girls in the past. He has cheated on so many girlfriends so yeah, that's another reason not to go out with him. But then he was like 'oh I'd never do that to you, I really like you' blah blah blah. At which point I reiterated the fact that it wasn't happening. We may become one of those sick couples who are known as 'friends that pull', great =/ Maybe I should just avoid him from now on? But I do kinda like him...

[soviet_roulette]

If you like him, then you should go for it, I reckon. Just be careful about the reputation thing, and if you do want a relationship, make sure it's sustainable, and not just a 1 month stint that ends in heartache. Think about the future for both of your sakes, right?

If things go further, and go well for you, then I'm happy for you. On the flipside, if he mistreats you, I'll quite happily break his neck for you. That is, if you don't get him first with your man-killer powers.

I'm a little confused as to how you can like someone, yet want to remain single, and not be with them...I've never felt like that before. xxx