same patterns

[ein_suender]

Ever feel like you repeat the same general crises and dramas in your life, over and over, year in and year out? How do you break the cycle? I just feel too old to be dealing with some of my kinds of "issues

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[fibro_mommy]

do I ever? ha my life is nothing but an ever repeating circle of dramas. I haven't broken the cycle completely but the "up to my knees in shit" therapy stint I did...my two years ago now helped the most. I did lots of letter writing (to people who hurt me but never sent) and lots of just getting it all out.

I love your new got brush icon ;)

[whobyfire78]

Sounds like more than anything, you need a good therapist.

[turtleinashell]

I don't think age has much to do with it. You were (are) young when so many things happened to you. This sets a mold that is not easily broken, but it is not impossible, either. Don't get down on yourself for being human, struggling with these things that you didn't ask for. You are a remarkable person, I think, and valiant.

Yes, I do believe there can be an element of the spiritual at work in many situations. I cannot say it is or is not at play here, but in my own beliefs, it would be very possible. Perseverance and faith are important.

Be strong, my friend. I'm praying for you and love you.