Perfectly understandable. I get people asking all the time whether I have gained weight, and sometimes negative when I tell them I don't want to and am actually losing weight. I enjoy bloating occasionally, but only for a temporary belly. Even those who are gaining ask me how big they should be. My answer is always this:
"It is your body. Do whatever you feel comfortable with. I am not going to suggest anything because I am not you"
I can understand how you feel. Unfortunately, there are a lot of creepy people into feederism, to the point where sometimes i hate having the fetish just because everyone assumes I want to strap some girl down and force feed her till she cant walk and is forced to rely on me. I know this will sound like bullshit, but for me, unless the girl is happy eating and gaining, I dont get turned on, because the turn-on for me is in her reaction to her weight. I've also seen a lot of the comments people (esp. girls) get, and too often it's something related to what a pig the girl is, or something, which to me is insulting even if it kind of gets the girl off
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I understand your worries...this is why I stopped purposely gaining as well, and pretty much stopped with the whole feederism thing. It was a bit too much pressure, especially since it amounted to please someone else and not really myself.
Do whatever makes you happy. The purpose of a fetish or anything like that is it's supposed to be fun, but no matter how much somebody enjoys gaining weight or not there is more to life. That's why Dimensions magazine is called dimensions rather than dimension because it's not one dimensional... ummm yes that's got to be it! lol
Anyway I've friended you just letting you know! :D
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"It is your body. Do whatever you feel comfortable with. I am not going to suggest anything because I am not you"
Best of luck with the path you have taken.
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Anyway I've friended you just letting you know! :D
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