An Open Conversation: ALL MEN MUST READ!

Oct 18, 2006 23:15

Guys. Before you IM me for the first time, YOU MUST READ THIS. I'm DEAD serious. (BTW, IM conversation used with permission of the other participant.)
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anonymous December 24 2006, 17:00:12 UTC
I have a suggestion - stop being naked. I'm not saying it excuses mens behaviors but I guarantee you'd feel less harassed without your belly hanging out. Must bear in mind that in the FA community if your belly is hanging out you may as well be laying spread eagle on the bed saying come sex me.

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electroinfecto March 15 2007, 21:57:35 UTC
That's like telling a woman not to wear a short skirt, otherwise she's asking for rape.

I'm sorry, but it's NOT an excuse and I shouldn't have to change MY behavior when it's THEIR behavior that's unacceptible.

FYI, I'm not naked. I'm actually wearing panties and you can see the tube top.

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electroinfecto March 15 2007, 22:00:11 UTC
Agreed.

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doctorfeeder February 1 2009, 23:40:34 UTC
Well, everyone has different approaches, personality, levels of aggressiveness. I love to chat about feederism and gaining myself, but I'd like to think I'm more interesting and subtle than most!

Just blow off the idiots and wait for the guys you like!

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anonymous May 5 2009, 16:19:31 UTC
This isn't just a problem for women. I've gone through about 4 iterations of a Fantasy Feeder account, all of which had been bombarded with messages from (and strangely enough) men wanting to jump into a feeding relationship with me (ignoring the fact I wasn't seeking a relationship with a man). I found that the more information I provided to people (pictures, verbose profile sets etc) the more negative attention I garnered for myself. Once my profile began to cut the crap and become a synopsis, not my life story, the harassment came to an end ( ... )

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electroinfecto May 5 2009, 16:27:12 UTC
I rather prefer the idea of calling these people out on their bad behavior and teaching them good behavior. What you're suggesting is rather the online equivalent of letting the "she was wearing a short skirt so she must have wanted it" people win. If we can combat that offline, we can do it online.

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