I remember I detested myself for the longest time because there was the nicest guy who was interested in me (highschool times...heh, cute) and I thought he was lovely, and tried my hardest to like him but could not get past the fact that he had a BIG NOSE......i thought I was the rudest, most shallow person for not being able to date him for his big nose......and he was SO nice, and i honestly tried SO hard to get past it....
But in the end I came to the conclusion that if we are not attracted to someone, for whatever the reason.....then it is just not meant to be....and i had to stop beating myself up about it..... we are not attracted to that person.....and those aspects, for a reason.
Well look, it's a tough burden to take but you know - if I'm not prepared to raise the standards in this gutter dwelling world, how can I expect anyone else to? :-D
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I remember I detested myself for the longest time because there was the nicest guy who was interested in me (highschool times...heh, cute) and I thought he was lovely, and tried my hardest to like him but could not get past the fact that he had a BIG NOSE......i thought I was the rudest, most shallow person for not being able to date him for his big nose......and he was SO nice, and i honestly tried SO hard to get past it....
But in the end I came to the conclusion that if we are not attracted to someone, for whatever the reason.....then it is just not meant to be....and i had to stop beating myself up about it..... we are not attracted to that person.....and those aspects, for a reason.
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I understand. I have no "type", not really, at least not in looks. What I am most attracted to is someone who is very confident and very clever.
And re:
"I've had the opportunity to experience what it's like to be dominated by someone I could, in reality, easily control physically."
I'm telling you, everyone on my flist is cooler and more experienced than me. Ev-er-ee-one.
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*makes smoochie faces*
*winkwink*nudgenudge*
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