Try ko humabol mamya. I have meeting/pullout in Galleria kasi. What time ang start? Has Pia confirmed? Papahula ako! P100 lang ang entrance fee right? Tapos P100 ang reading? Pwede ipa-list yung name ko just in case, para di na ako pumila sa reading hehehe. :D
The thing about this sort of rejection is the underlying sense of being objectified. It's like the person went comparison shopping, assessed your features, and decided you weren't what they were looking for. It sucks all the more if they go for a newer model instead. Better match, maybe, good for them. But it still ain't fun sitting on the shelf.
I think most people fall into the trap of comparing themselves to other models. ("What does SHE have that I don't have?" etc.) Don't. Matatalo ka lang. There will always be something another has that you don't, something you have that they don't, and it doesn't even really matter. You have to ask yourself what you want. You may be annoyed because you felt like you settled for something that didn't settle for you, but nobody ever said you had to settle.
Well, it's four years and counting. That's enough to do anyone in. As i said, I'm mostly happy, except in that aspect.
I don't compare unless I have to--like say, when I have someone to compare myself to na (with Pooh, wala pa naman thankfully AND hopefully hahaha). In my line of work, if I fall into the habit (trap!) of comparing myself, I'd be commited to an institution in Mandaluyong like that. ;D
Leica, you know me, I don't like settling. There's a difference between settling and having your heart set on someone.
aba nice hair.. looking good.. you should feel good din kasi good hair and good t-shirt hehe
like i said before, right time and right place lang yan since you should feel like the right person. sila yun "wrong" dahil di nila kita.. yun lang yun.
so no need to settle for anyone, hirap nun when the right one finally came, may kasama ka ng "wrong" one hehe
If that's the case, andaming wrong sa mundo. Huhuhu. I resign.
Kai, sa dami dami nating chat, you know I feel that there's no "right" one for me. Baka nakalimutan ni God gawin.
*sad mode ON*
Pero super thanks coz you are one of the persons who always try to pull me out of my funk. Buti na lang green minded ka kaya palagi ako natatawa. Hehe. ;D
madami nga wrong, pero am sure, may right din.. yun nga lang, not many are right.. which also means na rare.. and should be treasured. naks :P
so na established na may right person, so ang kulang ng lang ang right time.. since we cant really manipulate time, so the best we can do is make the most out of each time and every minute diba. not for anyone but for yourself..
so di na kailangan maging sad.. no reason to eh.
sympre, kailangan pa i-mention na green-minded ako.. tama ba yun, ayun, alam na ng buong mundo na "healthy" ang thinking ko hehehhe
I dunno, my brain is pessimistic enough to think there's no right one for me.
I have too much time on my hands. I can't wait for Apil to start and all my projects to roll in. Kahit na projects from Ms PR, ok lang. Maloka man ako sa kanya and her demands, at least it gets me out of my funk. oh, and I'm on schedule to get a massage, hit the beach, and start going to the gym. Time to pamper myself again.
For me, now is as good a reason as any to be sad. :i
Kai, of course I need to mention you're green minded. That's an integral part of you, one of your best qualities, I should say. Hahaha! You won't be kaibo without your green mind. ;D
PS Oh my god Kai, I just have to add that sometimes you surprise me: you make so much sense! Ikaw ba yan? Hahaha! Lova ya, Kai! *mwah*
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you and pia go!
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I think most people fall into the trap of comparing themselves to other models. ("What does SHE have that I don't have?" etc.) Don't. Matatalo ka lang. There will always be something another has that you don't, something you have that they don't, and it doesn't even really matter. You have to ask yourself what you want. You may be annoyed because you felt like you settled for something that didn't settle for you, but nobody ever said you had to settle.
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I don't compare unless I have to--like say, when I have someone to compare myself to na (with Pooh, wala pa naman thankfully AND hopefully hahaha). In my line of work, if I fall into the habit (trap!) of comparing myself, I'd be commited to an institution in Mandaluyong like that. ;D
Leica, you know me, I don't like settling. There's a difference between settling and having your heart set on someone.
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don't stress over it. it will come. ;)
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Man, I don't know if it's the moon, the upcoming retrograde period or what, I'm going crazy. Happy one minute, morose the next. Pfft.
Btw, it's different: guys can choose, girls usually await being chosen. Big diff. ;P
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like i said before, right time and right place lang yan since you should feel like the right person. sila yun "wrong" dahil di nila kita.. yun lang yun.
so no need to settle for anyone, hirap nun when the right one finally came, may kasama ka ng "wrong" one hehe
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If that's the case, andaming wrong sa mundo. Huhuhu. I resign.
Kai, sa dami dami nating chat, you know I feel that there's no "right" one for me. Baka nakalimutan ni God gawin.
*sad mode ON*
Pero super thanks coz you are one of the persons who always try to pull me out of my funk. Buti na lang green minded ka kaya palagi ako natatawa. Hehe. ;D
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so na established na may right person, so ang kulang ng lang ang right time.. since we cant really manipulate time, so the best we can do is make the most out of each time and every minute diba. not for anyone but for yourself..
so di na kailangan maging sad.. no reason to eh.
sympre, kailangan pa i-mention na green-minded ako.. tama ba yun, ayun, alam na ng buong mundo na "healthy" ang thinking ko hehehhe
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I have too much time on my hands. I can't wait for Apil to start and all my projects to roll in. Kahit na projects from Ms PR, ok lang. Maloka man ako sa kanya and her demands, at least it gets me out of my funk. oh, and I'm on schedule to get a massage, hit the beach, and start going to the gym. Time to pamper myself again.
For me, now is as good a reason as any to be sad. :i
Kai, of course I need to mention you're green minded. That's an integral part of you, one of your best qualities, I should say. Hahaha! You won't be kaibo without your green mind. ;D
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Oh my god Kai, I just have to add that sometimes you surprise me: you make so much sense! Ikaw ba yan? Hahaha! Lova ya, Kai! *mwah*
*giggles*
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Ey, when are you flying back? :D
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I was there the other day, might go tonight if I've time. Kitakits. :D
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