"You don't know anything because you're taking HIS SIDE," and you're god damn right I am. I may lose "friends" over the decision I make, but then again, I'm better off without some of you cocksuckers. Cheers.
The thing is, you shouldn't have to pick sides between anyone. Everyone has their own opinion about how things are and no matter what, personal opinions are skewed by the person's emotions whichever way you look at it. No one can ever know what happens between two people exactly, so what's the point of asking them to take sides? In reality, there is no side to choose except your own. I hope things work out for you in this. Maybe you should let the other person know this... *hugs*
Because Unlike some people there is loyaltly between true friends and people who are just someone to hang out. True friends are not bound by distance or bullshit drama. True friends are always there for each other no matter what. Thing is you don't seem to know the people that really care for you and the people that are only there because you might be a pretty face, or someone to speak to. Not picking sides here just stating that a real friend sticks by his/her friends.
True friends will also tell you when you're being stupid and/or if you've done something wrong. Real friends stick by you through thick and thin, regardless if you've done somthing they don't really agree with. If you see yourself as a true friend, you will never ask that of those you consider real friends to choose sides. Real friends are there to support you when you are down, help you get up on your feet, laugh with you, and share with you all of their own ups and downs in life. They are not there to choose sides. Even MY real friends will tell you that. They may not agree with me and they may say that the other person was right and I was wrong, but they are still my true friends and stick by my side to help me when I need it. Real friends are those that accept you for who and what you are and still love you. Not just those that choose sides. There is a difference between being loyal and being, for lack of a better word, a lapdog to follow you around without thoughts or opinions of their own. True friendship is about valueing each
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Thank you for the update, but it's always been my choice. If that also happens to mean that I take sides, then so be it.
The unbreakable friends; the five that have bore witness to all walks of fucked up stuff. They are the ones I trust impeccably and nothing will break that trust. Distance is no object; previous shitty instances dissolve.
My five brothers that I would gladly, and with no hesitation, be beside in their darkest hour.
not exactly sure what you are talking about here, but i can defintly take a wild guess and probably be right. BUt, what I want to say is no matter what you choose, if your friends are your friends then they might be mad, and cuse you, but they will eventually understand. BUT... dont choose your decision based on them, or anyone else but yourself. :P
Call me sometime, and we will hang out. Just get my number from MAtt. I am sure that you would like to hang out with someone that is on neither side :P
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The unbreakable friends; the five that have bore witness to all walks of fucked up stuff. They are the ones I trust impeccably and nothing will break that trust. Distance is no object; previous shitty instances dissolve.
My five brothers that I would gladly, and with no hesitation, be beside in their darkest hour.
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Call me sometime, and we will hang out. Just get my number from MAtt. I am sure that you would like to hang out with someone that is on neither side :P
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