So.. I have a wonderful new set of roommates since the last two (my brother and best friend, who were both NOT healthy around which to live) and things are emotionally going quite well
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Always always always start out with the positive. Talk about the things you really love about living with him then ease into the only issue you have is the dishes... you can even say you understand being busy and that being something you can't handle immediately sometimes but you hope it'd be cleaned within (timeframe) then close with what you really like about living with him again.
I don't think anyone is too sensitive to be upset by being asked to load a dishwasher! Be assertive (and you wrote the note in a perfectly nice way) sooner rather than later, or you'll end up being a dishwasher-loading, kitchen cleaning maidperson .. and you have better things to be doing. So, IMO, not harsh. Sometimes people just need to be told.
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Hope that helps. Good luck!!
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