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You might as well have just said you had to wash your hair!

Jul 10, 2005 02:31

ATTENTION MALE LJ FRIENDS: I require your assistance. Due to recent events and tonight's conversation I've decided to take the following poll:

How do you feel about girls making the first move? Hot or not? Attractive or intimidating? It was pointed out to me that if a guy can't deal with a girl being bold enough to make a move, then maybe they' ( Read more... )

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monkeyseamonkey July 10 2005, 14:03:22 UTC

that whole 'he's just not that into me' has ruined my life
it is all i think about when i beging dating someone.... it has turned me into a paranoid dater and has NOT helped me for the better haha

exaggeration July 11 2005, 02:56:56 UTC

I know what you mean, it made some good points about not wasting your time with guys who really don't make the effort, but otherwise I think it's just made me too self-conscious (whenever I start thinking about it I'm reminded of the SITC where Berger explains it to Miranda, and then it explodes in her face).

davriel July 10 2005, 14:38:28 UTC

Hot and attractive respectively. :)

Not intimidated if the girl makes the first move. Although, I won't even pretend that I represent the entire male species. ;)

*Hugs*
- Dave

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davriel July 11 2005, 16:25:36 UTC

Welcome back to LJ Drew!!!! You have been absent for too long. :)

*Hugs*
- Dave

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aeritone July 10 2005, 15:14:53 UTC

Hava, I made the first move. ^_^

And it was so worth it!

--Sarah

terlenth July 11 2005, 12:53:24 UTC

So does that mean we've finally settled the anniversary arguement? =P j/k

aeritone July 11 2005, 17:32:35 UTC

*snuggle*

We could just make it an epic anniversary, from the 12th-14th...if that would satisfy the argument. =P

exaggeration July 11 2005, 23:46:22 UTC

HI GREG! I didn't know you have an LJ?! How are you these days?

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im_frantastic July 10 2005, 19:01:00 UTC

i remember during a sex ed class with my grade 8 teacher, she said "if you wait for mr. perfect, he'll come - don't settle" and it's SO true! from my experiences and my friends/family, anyway. so i guess i'm saying there is a middle ground, but you might not stumble across it right away - i think everything happens for a reason

as for whether a girl should make the first move or not, you'll know. i think it's different in every relationship, sometimes it feels right and sometimes it doesn't, so just go with what you feel :)

exaggeration July 11 2005, 03:51:35 UTC

You sound like a true WETTer! Thanks Franny.

im_frantastic July 11 2005, 17:07:44 UTC

haha thanks! i didn't even think of that, but what a nice compliment :)

puckstopshere July 10 2005, 23:11:55 UTC

Dave's got a good point that it doesn't represent all of the guys in the world, but quite a few of them (myself included) wouldn't mind if the girl made the first move. As one of your friends have already mentioned, if a guy gets the "I just want to be friends" back from a girl too much, they become a paranoid dater themselves, and that might be why they don't ask you out.

Hot and attractive are the answers to your questions...although I'm sure if the guy is easily intimidated, he will get intimidated by that. But then that's just a matter of having an idea of who you're dating.

If more girls asked guys out, then I think there'd be less breaking up, because instead of the girl settling for the guy that asked her, she could say no to taht original guy and go out and get the guy she wants. More power to you!