This is so none of my business, a) because it's not my relationship and b) because I don't really see you guys anymore, but...what's going/has been going on? What makes you guys an on and off again couple? Feel free to not respond, as I said, it's none of my business.
We're not actually an on-again-off-again couple. But we have broken up once before, last November, and got back together again at the beginning of January. Basically, we have all the same problems we had before and broke up essentially for the same reasons and I feel like kind of a failure because of it.
To make a long story short, we need to be apart for a while because we're not ready to be together forever. It had gotten to the point where it was only possible to stay together if we jacked up the commitment level and worked really hard to correct our personal flaws and neither of us have the energy or motivation to work that hard at something when we both really want to spend some time being careless and irresponsible and young. We both have a lot of growing and changing to do, and right now we can't really do it as a couple.
That was kind of vague, but to be honest we've been rehashing the same bullshit for so long that I can't even remember what's wrong anymore. We've exhausted ourselves for the time being.
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To make a long story short, we need to be apart for a while because we're not ready to be together forever. It had gotten to the point where it was only possible to stay together if we jacked up the commitment level and worked really hard to correct our personal flaws and neither of us have the energy or motivation to work that hard at something when we both really want to spend some time being careless and irresponsible and young. We both have a lot of growing and changing to do, and right now we can't really do it as a couple.
That was kind of vague, but to be honest we've been rehashing the same bullshit for so long that I can't even remember what's wrong anymore. We've exhausted ourselves for the time being.
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