Comments | faerie_hime: Crisis of the future kind (as opposed to the existential kind).

faerie_hime

Crisis of the future kind (as opposed to the existential kind).

Jun 10, 2010 15:26

I don't know what I want. Is that bad ( Read more... )

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phoenixechoes June 10 2010, 23:10:49 UTC

I hate those feelings - both the "you are supposed to feel x and know y," and... not feeling or knowing those things. And, for me, and following soul-searching usually just results in more angst and flailing. And this is not at all helpful in a constructive manner, but, I hope things gel and click for you. (I could also give a whole long rant about college and how I hate the idea that "ZOMG EVERYONE NEEDS TO GO OR ELSE!!1!!" but I've just ranted about that to my brother, and I think I've filled my quota on that. >_>)

bkfstclubmember June 12 2010, 02:45:28 UTC

I think the more life experiences that you have the more you will figure out what you want. If you find that you're happy with just any job and your passions lie outside your job, then your job will be something that allows you to do the things you love. And that's ok. Or you might realize that there's something you want to do, but you need a college degree, so you'll go back to school.You'll figure it out. But you have to learn about yourself and find out who you are in order to find the answers to these questions.

Just do what makes you happy. It doesn't matter if someone thinks its the wrong decision even if its me. You'll figure out what makes you happy. Any move is a huge change and therefore gives you a chance to learn new things about yourself. I think this is a great time to learn these things.

Everyone takes their own path. You take yours, I'll take mine and neither is better than the other. It's just our journey and our lives. Keep your head up and you'll be fine. We all love you.