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[faeriemere]

AAAAAAAUUUGGGHHH.

Someone PLEASE teach me how to deal with guys, because CLEARLY, I do not know how.

I miss Ermes. And, weirdly, I miss Shu and Ward. I miss "safe" guys.

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[coventry_lance]

What happened this time?

Don't tell me you'd actually miss my brothers, too? *ready to go into shock*

[faeriemere]

Just...boys need to DIAF. This weekend, I have had two different guys (from my class, unfortunately) get WAY too friendly with me. And there must have been something in my behavior to indicate that I wouldn't be completely opposed to said friendliness, or they probably would have toned it down a little. So now I have to figure out what I'm doing wrong and how to make it stop. And this is only WEEK ONE. I now have to deal with sixteen more weeks of awkward with these guys.

Omg, I can't believe I'm actually saying this, but YES, I would. Yes, go into shock. I think I just did, myself.

[caveat_lect0r]

You didn't necessarily do anything inviting. The ratio of XY:XX is high, isn't it? They're probably just horny lonely for female companionship. You're female, you're attractive, and there you go.

[faeriemere]

Very high. My class is 10.6% female (that would be 7 of 66).

It's possible. And it's not like the Army is known for its humble, retiring males (or females, for that matter). But still. It grates on me that this happened. I may or may not have been inviting; but regardless, I was clearly not sufficiently uninviting.