death

[fallingup]

they were twins indeed. there was also major chromosomal abnormalties and both hearts stopped beating a couple of days ago. there is a strong probability they were conjoined but we'll get to know more after the genetic analysis are done following the d/c on monday

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[cattack]

Your perspective? I'm going to carry it with me today, turn it over in my mind. Hold it like a gift.

I shall also think about you and your family. Indeed, you are in my thoughts.

Hearts,
Alison

[milesofsky]

Thinking of you.

[matika]

I am in complete empathy with you. When it happened to us, V held me while I sobbed (that was before he went missing mentally). The pain does eventually ebb, though it never really disappears. I'll be thinking of you.

[redhen]

oh honey. i know that nothing nobody can say will make you feel better. it does sound like you're handling it well though. although i know i don't know how you feel, i do have some idea. i lost a pregnancy when i was sixteen and even thought it wasn't planned it was the most painful thing i've ever experienced. i figured the worst when you made that no-comments "i am so sad" post the other day. you've been in my thoughts and prayers and you'll definitely stay there. it might help you to name your babies and plant a little garden or a tree or do something to remember them by... or hold a little ceremony with patrick to say goodbye to them. take care. <3

[rozsecrets]

my heart goes out to you.