Maybe I was wrong...

[faranim]

Well, ever since my post a few days ago I've been second guessing myself about what it is that I really want. I think I'm going through a phase in my life that most "normal" people go through in high school. I guess that makes me a bit of a late bloomer, but I want to get this thing figured out. I'm going to be revealing a lot of information

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[anonymous]

www.dlist.com

Not Work Safe

Social network for gay/bi guys, like myspace but with porn if you want(this part is really weird)

For the rest, at least you realize what you're missing in your life and are taking steps to close those gaps. Just be you XD

[anonymous]

except for the girls part, i'm 100% exactly the same, although i still don't think i really have any real need or desire for sexual activity....happy with a guy just to spoon me or something heh.

finding myself wanting to be with some of my closer friends (who are straight), because i feel like the connection is already there, i'm not sure i could really go through the dating scene. i guess the best option for me would be to find a bunch of gay friends, but there's a part of me that's afraid of becomming the stereotypical gay guy, which isn't something i'm attracted to or want to be.

[faranim]

Bingo! Fems are weird, but I'm reasonably sure that just meeting other gay people won't suddenly give me a limp wrist or change the way I talk. I actually discovered that there are LOTS of gay/bi guys who look and act like any other normal guy you'd see in public. There is also appearantly lots of bi, married guys who frequently make out with other men (just look on craigslist for m4m ads

[beastmasterlui]

Do what makes you happy, regardless of anything else.

Guys with clothing tend to be hotter than without ;)

When you are pursuing activities that you enjoy doing, and express opinions that you honestly believe, this will naturally bring people towards you and push people away from you. The people who are drawn towards you are worth your time, and I bet the physical intimacy will come with that from someone. You can't reach out and ask for it or expect it. Yeah it's nice, but I have found myself in intimate situations more when I don't push for it, or expect it even.

Dare I say, the more you give, the more you receive?

[anonymous]

yea i think i'm the same about nudity in general(disregarding porn~), the penis and vagina really stands out and in not a good way (imo). women aren't so bad from a distance, but i think they're alot worse when you get upclose. i stare at a picture of one and i think how can someone seriously want to stick their face in that, it looks like it might eat them. but who am i to talk, already being proof of different strokes for different folks

[simozene]

The only way you're going to truly find out what you want is to experiment. If you go out with both men and women and you will probably come to understand more about yourself.

[mtg2k]

I normally dont reveal much about myself either... I, much like yourself didn't have much of a high school/college drama life (what i refer to the whole sex drugs and alcohol scene) I was happy growing up playing my Nintendo, Super Nintendo, etc etc through the ages and to this day still don't have many friends... and the friends i do have are quite the motley bunch and I would like to share some wisdom with you that they have shared unto me

[anonymous]

Honestly, before you assert yourself as being gay or bi, I think you need to actually be physically intimate with someone.

There is a huge difference between being intimate and being attracted. Personally, I find females to be extremelly aesthetically pleasing. It crossed my mind multiple times that I might be a lesbian. However, through experience I learned that being with a woman sexually wasn't as pleasing to me as being with men.

It's possible that you could be bi or gay, or even straight at this point. I just think you need to get out there and date!