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[figmentofurmind]

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[drooliothoughts]

hmm. have you ever read the book "peace is every step," by thach niht hanh (i forget if that's really his name but it sounds something like that)? your entry reminds me of a passage in it, about people's problems. in the book it does not aknowledge the lamo problems people claim to have becaue (in my opinion) they want attention, or have nothing better to say. it acknowledges the bigger ones. but what is helpful about it, is that it pushes you to think about the cause of a person's reasoning. it sounds, extreme to say the least, in the book, but it can even be applied to abusive parents. sure, it is unjustifyable, BUT it is understandable if you take the time to look at why they do it: maybe they were abused when they were children. although they may feel it is wrong, they might not be thinking when they do it. actions often come before thoughts, which is unfortunate but it must be realized that humans are not as advanced as we think we are, and therefore bad decisions will inevitably be made

[figmentofurmind]

Thanks a bunch. Yeah I'm not closed minded to it, I'm just trying to find the best way to go about dealing with everything. I'm trying to locate a center or some sort right now, but it's not really working out.

[hyperzone]

i had an affair with your dad too.
FINE THERE. YA HAPPY. I SAID IT.
gawsh. picky picky

[figmentofurmind]

Wow you're the only person that could ever get away with that lol.

So I GUESS THAT'S OKAY YONI. Picky picky picky.

sadly, i know how u feel

[anonymous]

im sorry that i have to admit... i know wut ur going through. its no fun. when my dad cheated on my mom, it pulled my life and my family apart. one day he showed up with signed divorce papers from him and a set for my mom, he told her to sign them and then a woman was sitting in his car. they were on their way to get married within the next week, they were just waiting got the devorce to become final. we (me and my siblings) werent even invited to the wedding, not that id want to go. but its my dad, he should have invited us. i hate him 4 everything he did to my family. and that was just the begining of our problems with him... im sorry 4 u and ur family. it'll never b the same again. but u can try to look on the bright side... if u can find one... i never did. sorry...
Xxfall out girlxX
-alissa-

Re: sadly, i know how u feel

[figmentofurmind]

Thanks a bunch, I'm sorry about everything that's gone on with you. I'm in search of a bright side right now =) thanks again