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Unrealistically High Expectations
Somehow she expected that rejecting me as a romantic and sexual partner, breaking up and completely terminating our ‘secondary’ relationship was not going to have any kind of significantly negative (possibly even terminal) effect on our friendship. She acted like she could just pick up right where we allegedly left off as friends as if the whole ( Read more... ) -
Comments on the Draft
Excerpted from a chat I was having with someone in Yahell ( Read more... ) -
While I'm venting... (aka can't sleep til I get it out of my skull...)
She has a relationship with an older gentleman, wherein she gives him what he wants, and he 'spoils her rotten' and gives her what she wants. She of course would say the moment I bring this up that each relationship is unique, and with each person her arrangements are different ( Read more... ) -
Some psychosocialphilosophical questions...
What makes someone think they can reject you, and then still hang on to you ( Read more... ) -
comments and quotes
"You ever have that feeling like you're juggling a bunch of vials of nitroglycerine and you're just wondering which one you're gonna drop first, and you can't stop 'cause that'll set 'em off anyway ( Read more... ) -
On Love, Being In Love, and Infatuation
What is love, and what is being in love? And how do these relate to infatuation?
Love is a four-letter word. A nebulous concept. I’ll approach it from the other side.
Being in love - presumably that’s the state of passion - of wanting to be with a particular person, of being passionately attracted to her or him, fascinated by her or him, turned on ( Read more... ) -
(Untitled)
Poems I wrote awhile ago. When I wrote them, it was what I feared was gonna happen, but really didn't want them to and was not trying to make them into self-fulfilling prophecy (thus, they were locked so that a certain someone wouldn't see them and get upset). Well, now it's happened (as of 13Dec06), so I'm unlocking them. The meltdown has ( Read more... ) -
Gee, Ya Think?
Caught on the news this evening ( Read more... ) -
I haven't posting nearly often enough
Well, hello live journal...
I haven't been posting often enough. It's past time I got off my ass and starting posting more. Herein lies my pledge to do so.
(would write more, but I'm typing this on someone else's computer while visiting her-- and dinner is ready)
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open fire
Okay, this ain't much of a post, but it announces two things...
One-- I've finally started a live-journal (happy now, Aerowolf? :D )
Two-- it'll give anyone who drops by something to reply against until I get off my rear and actually make some real posts around here....
Finn