death comes early

[firstofive]

I just learned that a good friend who worked tirelessly on the original "proposition to fund Livermore schools in the face of huge budget cuts" (I think we called it measure L and it was a property tax that has since been extended in another election) as I was leaving service on the school board has died of an accident. Not even 50 years old (

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[carol_da_queen]

So true Rebecca. Starting to feel that sense of vulnerability in a whole new way. We are all on a freeway, cruising along- and never know when we will suddenly exit, or see those we love exit. Friend of 25 years ill with a nasty brain tumor....in her 50s also. Sending hugs- I think we must be each other's shelter the best we can.

[cielledee]

As the deaths of contemporaries began to increase 25 years ago, I perversely named that the onset of middle age. The loss of my elders leaving my generation as the buffer against infinity seems more significant - it is easier to listen, not to get caught up in as many petty troubles, to enjoy details and moments along the way. And it seems easier to contemplate that it is possible to welcome an end. Odd, that.

[firstofive]

a ring of truth in what you say. I have a 70 year old friend who is actively thinking about winding her life down, not getting another dog, giving her precious jewelry to her children now, not later after she is dead, etc. She is still a very vital person. But mindful.