I wish there was a special task force focused solely on "Nice Guys".

[fleegull]

You really need to read the whole thing because the author is one of those whiny “nice guys” who doesn’t understand why women don’t like him despite the fact that he went to Yale.

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[eanelinea77]

These are more than likely the same types of idiots who start to chat you up and when you politely decline them, saying you're married, say "so?" o.0

Sometimes men are complete ass nuggets and sometimes they're gems. These guys are at the top of the barrel of ass nuggets.

[suzycat]

Ick.

The interesting thing is I knew a couple of guys who did this... but, being NZers, they had a contest to see who could get the FEWEST numbers from women. Without being arseholes. So they approached women who were married and supermodels and suchlike and were surprised at how many of them did give them a number. This led the one I knew best, who was still very young back then (and also very cute, actually) to say that it had made him less scared to ask out women he really liked.

Back then I thought it was kind of cute. But you have made me rethink it a little.

[musesfool]

Ugh. The whole thing is just gross. This is why I laugh when people tell me there's no more sexism or misogyny, that I'm just looking to be offended. Well, I laugh so I don't punch them in the groin.

[tigress35]

I hated the part that basically told guys their appearance doesn't matter. I'm sorry, but if you wash your hair, comb it, shave, and wear flattering clothes, you will definitely be more attractive to women.

Also, and of course this never crossed their minds, but a lot of those women were probably giving their numbers, or fake numbers, because a guy being aggressive and saying sexual innuendo means that a immediate defense mechanism of "I don't know what will happen if this guy gets mad at me if I brush him off. But if I give him a number, I don't have to see him again." of course, getting the number is the only thing that matters, so mission accomplished.