Boys.

[floaty]

At the moment I keep thinking I should try again with Jeremy. I know this is more of a boredom/loneliness/wanting ease type of thing, but its so much so that it seems like it would be great. So time for a pro/con list
Pros

Great sex. Like, actually,

Comments

[cactus_cat]

I'm not sure why crying is a con. Cries too much? Cries about things he shouldn't cry about? Cries in a way that makes you uncomfortable?

Some of the cons might be things he'd be willing to work on, to have you back? Like, drinking considerably less or not at all; either brushing his teeth before asking for kisses or getting treatment for halitosis (why is his breath bad?? teeth or stomach

[floaty]

He did comment one time that he wouldn't find me as attractive if I lost a lot of weight.... So that kind of is a deal breaker

The clinginess kicked in later I think. And everywhere we went.

Yeah him moving to Auckland would be bad - because all we would have is each other - and that was part of the problem already in Wellington...
Jeremy already is weird in similar ways to his dad.

He also has no desire to travel. And has bad taste in music.

His breath wasnt that bad at the start. Id say it was stomach related cos he brushed regularly and flossed.

[floaty]

Also, crying is a con because he cried too much. And maybe it is just too much for me, but surely thats still too much right?

And there is the bigger stuff - like only wants one child and thinks thats fine....

If you're envious, you can totally have him :0

[cactus_cat]

Probably! Depends whyyyyy it's too much for you, and whether you're okay with the level you're comfortable with, and whether the only guys who you'd want to be with dooo cry that much etc etc etc.

Life goal mismatch is a big one... How many do you want? I keep going back and forth on whether I want any at all, meh.

HAHAHAHAHA! I'm good, thanks. :D I'm envious of the being wanted! I just want someone to want me that much. And, y'know, for it to be someone I want too. Actually, I wouldn't mind the self-esteem boost of being wanted by someone I don't want, right now. I've forgotten what it feels like. XP

[cactus_cat]

Jeremy already is weird in similar ways to his dad.

Is he a doomsdayer?? Also, did you hear that the Mayans didn't have leap years and doomsday was about 6 months ago? LMAO. :D Though I did hear that on ZM so pinch of salt etc.

My 2 cents - work on being happy alone for a few months, without looking for a guy at all. Buy a fancy new vibrator. You don't need someone else to make your life complete! A partner is just the icing on the cake, the cake is pretty tasty on its own. Ok, not the best analogy. I'm watching New Girl right now so I'm feeling a little Jess-ish. :P Will email you after. :)

[floaty]

No but hes weird lol

Yeah I heard that too. Doomsday fail :)

I did buy a fancy new vibrator and it is pretty amazeballs! Thank you holiday pay :)
I know - but I do miss the smell of boys. And the feel of them and stuff.... I want chocolate icing! :)

Yes you are right damn you :) xx

[floaty]

Oh and about Jeremy and his doomsdayer-ness.
Hes the kind of person that thinks households should maybe just have one car to save on petrol etc. Which is stupid. A nice theory but not practical at all!!

And the fuel is all going to run out. Like, I get that, but I dont need to be reminded of it every bloody week.

Just that sort of thing :)