Wow...I think the last time I updated was back in May when Bobby and I got engaged, haha. Guess I found something worth bitching about on lj
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I don't think you're in the wrong here, hun. There's a huge difference between being blood-related and choosing to be relationship-related. Everyone has to choose whether or not the people in their family are important enough with which to spend time and develop a relationship. To me, it seems that she only wants the perks of having that relationship without investing any effort.
I do feel like that is what is going on, she feels like just because she is my sister she has an automatic ticket to being in the wedding, and that's what I was afraid of. She said things like I'm nothing special, she doesn't care about my wedding, she doesn't ever want to speak to me again...etc. etc. She thinks because it happened over a year ago it should just go away...but that over a year ago was the last time I saw her so of course it didn't just go away. I dunno, I'm trying to figure out a way to handle it...I apologized for how the conversation went (not anything that I said b/c it was all true) just to see if she would decide to talk to me again...we'll see what happens.
Ugh. I have 20 and 40 year olds in my extended family who still act like that and have always acted like that. Age is nothing, I think maturity varies from person to person. Just some people are so set in their ways, they're always convinced they are right. She honestly wants to do family time with as little effort as possible, and then can't admit she's wrong when her sister who she never sees or talks to doesn't want her in the wedding. Plus, why should she be getting upset? Its YOUR wedding, and YOUR choice, so there is no need for a tantrum
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Ha...I love you. I just wish she would not be so dumb...her best insult was that I need help because I was upset about it. I'm glad you approve of my bridesmaid selections:) I can't believe Christmas is so close...hats and whiskey are two very wonderful things:) I have some Mojito premixed...Long Island Iced Tea premixed...and Captain Morgan Tattoo...so whenever we have the time to actually have friends over and celebrate my birthday I plan on getting crunk, haha. We should probably make time to hang out next week:)
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