OMG ANOTHER ONE! I just wrote about why is it that boys all of a sudden just BAM ignore you? Seems so out of the blue...especially when the girl didn't do anything! I think it's their shit (so many people have issues) and they are not man enough to tell us and think that they should work it out on their own. You do have a right to know at least something. A decent guy would say SOMETHING, even if it's bullshit, at least it's something. He shouldn't string you along. But seems like silence is your answer. I vote move on from the wanker.
oh, and did I mention is one of my roommates best friends? He is ALWAYS around, we are all close with his family, I go to lunch with his mom once a week (she calls me and constantly asks why we aren't dating), we all camp together, we all do everything together, and I am supposed to pretend I am not hurt or angry or upset or that what he is doing is okay? yeah...
Fuck no, don't pretend. I say, put it out there so you don't have to suffer silently. Fuck that. He should know he's being an ass. Say something like, hey man, I don't appreciate and deserve to be ignored. If you don't want to talk about it that's fine, but at least let me know that you need space or whatever so that I know you aren't ignoring me and if you are then fuck you, you are not a decent human being and the boy I thought you were.
I seriously lay awake at night and wonder what the hell is sooooo wrong with me that I deserve to be completely ignored
Sweetheart, I say all of this to you with all the love in my heart - you DO NOT deserve it, in any way, shape, or form. It happens because the consequences for it happening (whatever those might be) aren't enough to stop him from doing it.
Maybe he does know you better than anyone else, and you two are perfectly suited for one another - if the other parts of him are good enough that it's still worth it, even with the ignoring, then sure, by all means, push through the ignoring-inspired insomnia. But if you're sticking with it because you think that he's your only chance, I am telling you now that there are more and better people out there. Because you DO NOT deserve shabby treatment.
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Sweetheart, I say all of this to you with all the love in my heart - you DO NOT deserve it, in any way, shape, or form. It happens because the consequences for it happening (whatever those might be) aren't enough to stop him from doing it.
Maybe he does know you better than anyone else, and you two are perfectly suited for one another - if the other parts of him are good enough that it's still worth it, even with the ignoring, then sure, by all means, push through the ignoring-inspired insomnia. But if you're sticking with it because you think that he's your only chance, I am telling you now that there are more and better people out there. Because you DO NOT deserve shabby treatment.
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