talked to her about it but still things on my mind

[fox2102]

Me and caitlin talked out the marriage thing some but the fact is i cant be alone with her for that long and i cant expect someone to watches like some children so the simple fact is that i cant travel with her when she does travel unless we are married. Though it scares me because with all that traveling it will be hard for us to keep in good

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[anonymous]

ok firstly no offence but no gd's in the comment box this time, because last time it offended me. another thing, different perspectives have to be fully looked at if you want to understand the other person. ak im going to bed now

[fox2102]

ya i know it's just hard to see the other perspectives sometimes. i know we love each other........i will wait as long as it takes

[lethal_insanity]

My belated two cents: Don't even think about marriage right now. Just don't fucking do it. You know as well as anyone that it's not even an option in ya'lls current state (financial, school, age, etc.). I hate to say this, I do, because you're a great and honest guy, but you might regret your decisions with her one day. Caitlin has a right to be scared about marriage, she's had a rough life. Think about it, most kids (how old is she? Younger than me, right?) who are against marriage is because of the home lives they've had. As for sex: don't do that either. Hold back. Things might change in a few months and, hell, who knows what it'll be like between ya'll. In all honesty... dude... you know the statistics for long-distance relationships. I can personally vouch for them, they aren't the best way to go. However, I wish the very best of luck and I sincerely hope you find your way in this choice. I hope you will make the best and most rational decision. :)

[fox2102]

ya i know the risks and that's why i am not going to get married for years down the road

[lethal_insanity]

Good boy. :)