Quiet...

[friendlynerd18]

I was told today by one of my good friends that I've been quiet recently (text message wise) and I'll admit that I have. I've had a few things on my mind recently and I still don't quiet know what to do with these thoughts. My main thought that's swimming in my head is that I haven't been nurturing my other friendships outside of the one friend I

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[nahele_101]

"but I've decided that whenever the same people reach out to me over the same problem for the 100th time that I'm just going to leave it alone. I have to focus on other people and other problems. "

I do the same for the most part. If they ask for assistance, I give advice/help, and they keep doing the same thing??? nah, no bother me. You gonna do what you gonna do ya? So, I'm on your side of responding the way you do.

As to wet dreams...um, common yes. Especially if you haven't had sexual outlet in awhile. Gotta let your passions run loose occasionally ya?

[friendlynerd18]

Totally agree! I think dreams reflect unconsciously the wants of the mind/ heart. Although for me dreams like this have never really been "pleasurable"... I think most of them stem from wanting a deeper connect with someone like being in a intimate relationship.

[kurikuribebi]

People express their emotions differently. Your friend should be aware of that at this point in our lives. She doesn't need to question it.
I have wet dreams often but as to whether they feel good or not? I'm not sure. Sometimes I don't even remember what I dreamed about.

[friendlynerd18]

She should but I think she's perplexed by the how different we are emotionally. I don't get her hypersensitivity and she doesn't get my ability to switch my emotions off.

Half the time I don't remember by dreams but sometimes I do wonder when what they mean when I'm constantly dreaming of a particular theme. What are you trying to tell me my unconscious mind?!

[mike297]

Lol I often get wet dreams and find them very enjoyable and often my partner Tanya wakes me up as I am making all sorts of noises or moving about too much .Is that too much info or what lol
Mike

[friendlynerd18]

I think that's pretty normal that people would enjoy those types of dreams. I seem to be the odd woman out that doesn't lol.

[mike297]

No not at all as my freinds all females enjoy them as well.It just depends on the person male or female and possibly the situation where they happen
Mike