Funny old day.

[gashinryu]

So my decree absolute came through. I am now single and free to re-marry, if I wish. It's quite a strange feeling, even after Sara and I being apart for all this time. I'm very glad it's all over and done with now but I...well, I just don't know. I'm sat here in a room in the house I share with two other guys and I'm wondering where I am. The last

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[the_mendicant]

I'm just beginning the divorce process after 3 1/2 years of separation and am waiting for the decree nici to come through - so yes, I feel some of the same things as you.

Mel posted on Face book yesterday that Sarah was away and he was alone and lonely in his flat.

I feel like that most nights - even when the boys are at home, which is most of the time. They have their own lives in their own rooms and are both in love. I sometimes wonder who would really miss me if I walked under a buss tomorrow. Yet at other times I still feel vibrantly alive.

This too shall pass as they say, but it does us no harm to have small still moments of contemplation from time to time. See it as the end of the beginning not the beginning of the end. Good luck with the next chapter xxx

[psyche_71]

*understanding hugs* x

[gruamach]

There are those moments in life where the universe seems to pause.
It may be something you're already aware of.....expecting....and the "event" itself may even be passed.

But the moment of true realization hits, and things pause.
You suddenly find yourself looking at your life, but from the outside and off to an unfamiliar angle a bit.

We feel lost in those moments of pause, because we're creatures of habit, and now we're suddenly realizing that "things are not what they were a few minutes ago and never will be."
That can scare people....or make us feel sad at the lose, even if we're actually wanting the change (or at least, expecting it)

So accept the pause for what it is: A moment to stop and accept that "things are not as they were" and then look and decide where you want it all to go from there.

You can't go backwards, but now you have the ability to choose the direction that "forward" will take you.

[7rin]

*turns to the next page*

*hugs*

:)

[ev1ldonut]

*hands you a beer*

Probably won't help, but it's tasty and satisfying regardless :)

*hug*