Where I was offended by the following portion of her reply which was, "PPPPS. ANYONE WHO THINKS THE GREEN PARTY HAS A SUITABLE PLATFORM IS CLEARLY DEVOID OF ANY POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE! " since that was my party of choice in this election.
And Mike prevented me from replying in that thread, though I bloody well wanted to because that got my ire up, and you know how an irked Cara-Mae can be ;>
wE AGREe toO DisAgREE.gdb1July 2 2004, 19:29:25 UTC
I wasn't trying to be mean. This was meant for friends only and who would be snooping through my unimportant journal anyway. I just don't want anyone else to experience the shit without knowing the potential for aggravation.
everyone tends to have a "superior" self-imagecagewenchJuly 3 2004, 10:10:13 UTC
Just because you are all closer and thus chose to stick together doesnt mean that SHE has the problem.... I seriously think the problem lies with your group. Not to be mean, but its what Im seeing. Now I dont know what happened in person if anything did, but from LJ this is what I see. I see you as being in the wrong. This person deleted their LJ to get away from you...I see them as more mature.
If this actually is a true friend of franeh's rather than being her just posting anon...
As I said in my subject line... everyone tends to have a "superior" self-image; however, the joy of having true friends is that they don't let you get away with too much and you can see a more accurate a reflection of oneself through having close and honest friendships.
A real close friend of franeh's wouldn't coddle her. They'd try to open her eyes to how she comes across, and would support her in getting help.
I think gdb is letting his personal feelings allow him to join the bandwagon against this person. It almost makes me wonder what he does with his time... So you jump in, and start making comments about him? Way to jump on the bandwagon yourself. Being as you're just an uninvolved friend.
although IQs dont take into account mental stability, I must say that she is quite sane. I mean they wouldnt let her do a degree in psych without her sanity! Untrue. For instance, I would assume that someone with DID would be assumed to be somewhat lacking in sanity, at least according to the DSM IV. This book, written by Tracy Alderman, PhD, who suffers from the disorder she's writing about, and tackles it from that angle.
Now the comments posted in doooks LJ prob put a lot of people against her HOWEVER these were all friends of dooooks so they will stick together wont they?Well, as I don't even know who this doook person is, nor have I read the discussion in question. I'd think this leaves me out of the "people against her" over that discussion
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Oh and one can threaten to use legal action if one harasses a person in any way. Especially if they involve others in the slander. Thought Id bring that up. You might want to look at the fact that both "you" and franeh have said a variety of things, probably in recorded logs, if nothing else. Thus, you're putting yourselves in the same position. And actually, slander isn't slander if it's just between two people. More people need to get involved, and reputation needs to be tarnished. I personally haven't been affected by anything that's been said, and have given the people involved all the benefit of the doubt. However, franeh's actions seem to have spoken for themselves in her overreactions to many various things, her overarching superiority complex, among other things. And just so you know, this isn't slander. It's my assessment of the truth. Constructively, I really think she needs to work on those things in particular.
I cant defend you in this situation as you had no right, for lack of a better word, to make this post and chose to call
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LASTLY, TO ATHENA 51: I want to thank you for your objectivity and for your kindness towards said person. It takes a kind and strong person to do this and its much appreciated. If she ever comes across this post shell realize how stellar you really are! Thx on her behalf..you rock! lol! (Ive never met you as Ive never been to KW but from what I hear you are super nice!)
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from this point: http://www.livejournal.com/users/doooook/137473.html?thread=610049#t610049
Where I was offended by the following portion of her reply which was, "PPPPS. ANYONE WHO THINKS THE GREEN PARTY HAS A SUITABLE PLATFORM IS CLEARLY DEVOID OF ANY POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE!
" since that was my party of choice in this election.
And Mike prevented me from replying in that thread, though I bloody well wanted to because that got my ire up, and you know how an irked Cara-Mae can be ;>
so go easy on Mikey *smooch*
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;> JUST KIDDING!!!
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If this actually is a true friend of franeh's rather than being her just posting anon...
As I said in my subject line... everyone tends to have a "superior" self-image; however, the joy of having true friends is that they don't let you get away with too much and you can see a more accurate a reflection of oneself through having close and honest friendships.
A real close friend of franeh's wouldn't coddle her. They'd try to open her eyes to how she comes across, and would support her in getting help.
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So you jump in, and start making comments about him? Way to jump on the bandwagon yourself. Being as you're just an uninvolved friend.
although IQs dont take into account mental stability, I must say that she is quite sane. I mean they wouldnt let her do a degree in psych without her sanity!
Untrue. For instance, I would assume that someone with DID would be assumed to be somewhat lacking in sanity, at least according to the DSM IV. This book, written by Tracy Alderman, PhD, who suffers from the disorder she's writing about, and tackles it from that angle.
Now the comments posted in doooks LJ prob put a lot of people against her HOWEVER these were all friends of dooooks so they will stick together wont they?Well, as I don't even know who this doook person is, nor have I read the discussion in question. I'd think this leaves me out of the "people against her" over that discussion ( ... )
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Thought Id bring that up.
You might want to look at the fact that both "you" and franeh have said a variety of things, probably in recorded logs, if nothing else. Thus, you're putting yourselves in the same position.
And actually, slander isn't slander if it's just between two people. More people need to get involved, and reputation needs to be tarnished. I personally haven't been affected by anything that's been said, and have given the people involved all the benefit of the doubt. However, franeh's actions seem to have spoken for themselves in her overreactions to many various things, her overarching superiority complex, among other things. And just so you know, this isn't slander. It's my assessment of the truth. Constructively, I really think she needs to work on those things in particular.
I cant defend you in this situation as you had no right, for lack of a better word, to make this post and chose to call ( ... )
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Thx on her behalf..you rock! lol! (Ive never met you as Ive never been to KW but from what I hear you are super nice!)
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and then saying, "...Ive never been to KW "
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stellar.... haha
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