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[gen717]

I've always believed in the idea of "friends over fandom."  But I suppose when all people have in common is a small section of fandom, then "friends" is a word loosely applied here.  I've noticed, that since I've become a diehard Chlollier, some Chlarkers, who have been on my f-list since I first joined LJ have de-friended me. That's cool, I get

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[caremikaelson]

I confess to be a multi shipper. I really watched Smallville since Season 6 and I liked Lois/Oliver very much at this Time but after I saw "Siren" I know Chlollie will Rock Smallville. I never really like Jimmy/Chloe or Davis/Chloe but if someone likes them it's okay.
Do what you want and like what you want but please be respectful if I not like what you like or the other way around.

What I want to say is even if you, what I not hope, sometimes doesn't like Chlollie anymore I will stay as your Friend here on lj

[gen717]

Being a multi-shipper is great! You have so much to watch for. I don't mind that at all. I agree as long as people are respectful, there's no problem. Fandom should be fun.

I will always love Chlollie, no matter what happens to them on the show. *hugs*

[kitmerlot1213]

I am a Chloe multi-shipper but I have to admit to enjoying the Chlollie more then I ever enjoyed the potential Chlark.

Of course Chlex will always own my soul, so please don't defriend me :):) (Just kidding!)

[gen717]

No love, I don't mind multi-shippers. You guys actually have more to enjoy! LOL

I'm just tired of all the hate negativity everywhere I go in fandom. You're fine. *hugs*

[ladygawain]

Word to everything you said -- hatred and drama are awful! Hello, Gen!!!! *waves*

I've been MIA, and I woke up this morning and really missed Chlollie, it was such an odd feeling. I want Chloe back, and I want them in scenes together already! I think I need to sit down and write fic or something. Also, I just started watching Merlin and I am in love with A/G!!!!

[gen717]

I'm so glad to see you around. I've missed you!

I know fandom can be a touchy place to be, but I really have no problem with anyone loving other ships or things about a show. I'm just so weary of all the hate and negativity. Of course people have a right to their opinions, and as long as others are respectful I have no problem with it if those opinions are different from my own. We're all fans of the same show. A little respect would go a long way.

Yay! So glad you've started watching Merlin. Something else we can fangirl over! :)

[iliana_1]

*CLINGS*

My Smallville fandom mantra is simple. Chloe > All. I do find myself feeling a little adrift even in the Chloe fandom now, which is sad.

[gen717]

I know what you mean. I'm not sure where I fit in other than being a Chloe/Oliver/Chlollie fan. Other ships really don't bother me. I'm just tired of negativity, and it's everywhere it seems.

[gen717]

I've been good. Very busy with work. I've been missing my Merlin fandom lately, and mostly lurking but plan to be around more. :)

[kyra_and_co]

sometimes I miss the good old time when there was only a handful of chlollie fans. I loved seeing your cute first fanarts & read the first chlollie fics by Fina. chlarkers & cloisers were in "war" & we were in our heaven place :)
but that's the problem, when something becomes popular, the hating grows too.

But no disheartening, the chlollie lj comm is an awesome place & chlolliers are amazing. I'm happy to be in this fandom full of talents.(the same with A/G)

[gen717]

but that's the problem, when something becomes popular, the hating grows too

This. It was so easy to have a safe haven back then. We still have our safe havens, but venturing out of them can be scary. The hate I see is appalling.

[smallvillefics]

LOL. Right?! Much as I'm grateful for the influx of fans and therefore fanfiction, I frequently long for the pre-canon days.

Back then the vibe of Chlolliedom was different. True Chlolliedom was established by our early fanfiction authors! I don't mean to sound ungrateful that we get fantastic onscreen chemistry, just that sometimes it's disheartening to see my "happy ship" not so happy anymore.

But you're right - there are still awesome people out there, and I am grateful for those who are my bright spots in the murkiness that can be fandom.