It's one of the hardest things in my book, not being given the chance to explain our intentions. I do think it was cold of that person to just end the friendship on the very first misunderstanding. I wouldn't have any friends right now if I did that kind of thing with people. I'm sorry this has happened to you and I don't blame you for feeling stress and hurt from it. *hugs tight*
Thanks, Suz...I'm totally willing to acknowledge where I fell short, but I'm thinking that with someone who would forsake a friendship over what I feel is kind of a minor infraction, I don't think it's worth it in the long run. I'm not really worrying about it too much, but a part of me would like to speak my mind!
I find that you can be friends with someone a long time before you realize how superficial it is. Take Danielle as an example. You know who I'm talking about... We were friends for the better part of 4 years, but one little thing went wrong, and she did a total 180 on me. Like you, I know where I fell short, but ultimately it had nothing to do with the friendship ending. It was just her. Who knows why, but people are like that.
it took me a second, but yes, I know exactly who you are talking about. It doesn't seem fair that one mistake could end 4 years of friendship. I'm sorry she 180'd on you. :/ I don't think I'll ever really understand people that do that.
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