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[givenover18]

ok well camp is cool... the drive was pretty good... you know i always bring conflict wherever i go, josey and i got into it a little bit, but we got over it... hmm we got to see the Bartletts. that was encouraging... Wow someone popped all my tires b/f i left... that confused me, what in the world... i really don't want to flatter myself thinking

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[onthe45xxxx]

You finally understand. Chambers, about 95% of women are idiots. I've been saying this for years. Most women have one goal in life. To have a boyfriend/husband. Guys like these kind-of women because the "helpless" act builds up their ego. If a woman comes to a guy and asks for help of any kind it builds up his ego. Men are generally going to go for the girls that build up their ego and make them feel like "men". Usually, a man would never date a woman that would make him feel unnedded/unwanted.etc..etc..or, any less "manly'. And to be honest with you? about 98% of men are idiots. Fear not my little Chambers. Stupid is as stupid does and to be honest, dumb women belong with dumb men.

[onthe45xxxx]

Well, about idiots: we're all like sheep gone astray, you know? Generally speaking, men are wired for visual and they have a deep need for significance; women are wired for touch and emotion and they have a deep need for security. Men find their significance in providing security, according to God's design, and women look to them for it. God intended for men to be providers and protectors, and while they may fail miserably or pervert His intention, they are wired that way for His purpose. So if men and women are living wholeheartedly for God, their differences will complement each other. If not, the soup is gonna stink.

[anonymous]

Amen, sister! I think the best way to handle this ever-present issue with guys is to bathe them in prayer. I know Brett would relegate me to the "nag" category if I confronted him with this too frequently. There is a time when it's ok to say something about it or even DO something about it; sometimes I clear my throat when there's someone on TV that calls for a channel change. Sometimes I come right out and say, "Um, hello? I'm right here!" But we need to face the fact that men are going to struggle with this til they're dead, and we can't mommy them 24/7, so we have to leave them in the hands of God, who IS with them 24/7. I think the key to deciding whether or not to really intervene lies with determining how serious the situation is. A glance is not adultery; when Brett looks briefly at a woman who is immodestly dressed, I give him a knowing look, but that's about all. A stare would be a little different, you know? Like maybe an elbow in the ribs? And of course, obsessions like pornography require even more invasive

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[givenover18]

thanks yeah i can usually have a balanced perspective, but i get really upset about 2 days a month about this... i do pray and confront the issue, but sometimes confronting it does more harm than good... especailly if my suspicions are wrong... but i know he is trying really hard to honor me and be thoughtful about this... im feeling better today, just observing some of the happy content married couples at camp, and i know i can see myself there... i mean if a guy wanted all this, he could have it, but he is choosing to be in a committed relationship with me, i can't blame him for temptaions the world throws at him, especially when he is trying so hard and genuinely cares about me and loves me... maybe a girl can turn his head, but i know that i have his heart... especially when marriage comes around, thats saying he loves me so much he wants to be devoted to me for life!!(0: sounds kinda cheesy but whatever

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[marshalbrown]

Is this the Hannah from CCCB? Gosh dang, I dunno anymore... anyway this is Marshal, and well.. Its good to talk to you. It's been a long freaking time. Just to let you know.. I just got dumped on 6/6/06 which should be said as 6/6/6. I am currently in Oklahoma and dunno what to do. I just wish that God would take this pain from me. I feel like such a loser, and a sucker.. and think that there is no such thing as a good girl out there. I really wanted her to be the one, and now I dunno if she's left me forever. She doesn't want me to contact her over the phone, and if I call she wont pick up.. suck butt.. Anyway, I guess I know how u feel :)