What ya sayin?

[godchild1]

Wassup Alicia and Morgan? Yall are tha only 2 i talk to on here so until someone else gets on here, thats how i will address things. Anywho, i got a question for yall: When do you consider a person "playing games"? I have heard and read a few posts and whatnot, and alot of your definitions are off target. Okay, some people may actually be playin,

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[msmorgan]

I dont know if I myself necessarily have a definition of playing games. I think I tend to say men are playing more mind games than anything. These mind games comprise of the "guessing game". One minute he's attentive, the other he is not. What the deal with that? Although I tend to give men the benefit of the doubt and consider all factors involved in the situation. Perhaps he's acting funny because he doesnt wanna get too caught up just yet, or maybe he's tryin to play it cool and not show his feelings, or maybe he's putting up a wall because he doesnt want to get hurt. After so long i refuse to play the fool and stay around if the mind games, or guessing game continues after a hugh chuck of my time. Frankly, If you wanted me I wouldnt have to guess :(

[brown_suga_lady]

What do I consider playing games:

* Sayin you gonna do something or meet me and you don't do it and you don't call to let me know you can't make it or can't finish what you started.

* The behavior above continues even after I have said something about.

* Showin interest one minute and then the next I'm invisible.

* When a guy acts like he's listenin to you but he don't hear a damn thing that came out ya mouth.

After I'm agitated or aggravated and I've talked to him about it & shit don't change then I'd be finished and throw the deuces up.