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[goofybutlovable]

Ever since I learned what it was to have feelings for a girl, love swooped to the front of my waking yearnings.Do misogynists emerge because of one woman's effect on that thereafter misogynistic man? Or is a lifetime of disappointment, abandonment, infidelity, dishonesty and immorality at the hands of several women that brews up someone such as

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[ix_tia_xi]

I doubt true misogyny. Especially after Hilary Clinton brought it into her campaign. I was baffled. I wonder if woman claim that any opposition is a misogynist just to get a pity cry.

I believe that if true misogynists exist, that it's more from a lifetime of hurt and anguish, and not just one bad event. Because, isn't that unreasonable? To base all on the behaviors of one. I certainly wouldn't want someone to pre-judge me based on my gender. Especially in my dating life.

Although right now, my dating life is completely non-existent. Yet another pleasure of the middle of nowhere.

[goofybutlovable]

Misogyny is irrational, but as far as trust goes...

[ix_tia_xi]

I agree. Trust can be shot down with just one bad experience.

Believe me. If there's one thing I know, getting into a really nasty relationship with someone breaks your trust and I really doubt if it will ever be restored. I guess you just doubt if anyone is ever really any different.

Especially these days, it just seems like everyone is the same and wants the same things. I feel like the odd ball out. Like no one will ever want to date me and that I might as well just stick my nose in a book for the rest of my life and just learn to like it.

[goofybutlovable]

It does get tougher to have faith in romance when you feel betrayed...but the heart IS meant to be used. I think it's a matter of finding someone who isn't manipulative...and if Sebring is largely a geriatric demographic, it'll be difficult to find guys your age to begin with. But don't lose faith in yourself and that you're wantable.

[kissme_imjewish]

it gets harder and harder to think that someone really wants you sometimes, doesn't it?

[goofybutlovable]

You have every idea.

It's more of feeling like the backup lover, and the hypocrisy and lying, that get to me.