lipstick relish.

[h_burg_liar]

DISCLAIMER: if you have a problem with sexuality (particularly my sexuality) i suggest you stop the reading here. if you do not however, i do hope that you are able to see where it is i am coming from and read it with an open mind

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[evilgoatbob]

"i never realized how much men used a woman's sex/sex appeal/natural urges against her"

Hey pot, kettle much?

Seriously, which is more an ingrained concept in society: the vixen bending men to her will by playing on their sexual fantasies, or the playboy...I don't know...making women succumb to the might of his penis?

[h_burg_liar]

haha...yeah, well...no actually, i don't kettle much, so it was like an accumulation of stuff that i had kept inside for a while. so yea.

oh yea, us girls, we are so in control...and besides that's bullshit. think about it, which is more socially acceptable: guy hooks up with lots of girls=the man
girl hooks up with lots of guys=slut
it wouldn't even have to be a trashy girl, just a girl that is secure in her sexuality in general. we get that whole "loose woman" stereotype.
besides, when i wrote this i definately wasn't directing it at you, even though i'm sure you oppress women by the thousands, i meant it as a more general statement. and by general i mean...in the south, in the united states, in the world. not so much...you.

[d_r_love]

A couple of things:
(1) WOOHOO for amazing orgasms & sex toys!!
-my vibrator has really changed my life. I simlpy know my body better and know what will get me to orgasmic land.
(2) I'm reading, Autobiography of a blue-eyed devil by Inga Muscio writer of Cunt. I suggest checking out both books. CUNT first though. Anyway. i'm not that far in but after reading this i was reminded of a chapter i read last night. So i felt like sharing. Its kind of related, but if anything just kinda interesting.

"Reproductively speaking, whites are the most vulnerable race. If a white person has a child with a person of color, that child will no longer be considered white. Imagine this terror for white men: If their daughters and sisters wer to dcide that men of color were more desirable mates, then sooner or later the "pure" racial makeup of whiteness would be gone forever. White women are still very much considered--by an extension of identity--white men's prime biological real estate..... This fear explains why Operation Rescue's (scare anti-choice

[h_burg_liar]

thanks! and thanks for the book suggestions, i'll definately check them out.

[abeja28]

woooooo!!!! a feminist's rite of passage.

[h_burg_liar]

i know, i feel really different over something that seems so simple. it's strange...