Keep your chin up, Harry. I believe that the bad times are given to us to glorify the good. If you were happy all of the time, there'd be nothing extravagant about it, now would there?
Besides, according to cognitive theory, if you're very sad for a long time, then after a while you'll be content. >>;; I'm taking Muggle-y psychology... Tons of fun. Well, not really. My classmates are a bunch of opinionated back-talkers. Oh well!
But, I'm just saying that you should remember optimism. There's plenty of good left in the world, you just have to let the bad balance it out.
Harry, it'll be alright. I know it's like when someone gets a pool, and then you're like "Oh.. I wish I had a pool." and they're like "No you don't." it's like I wish my life was as interesting as yours, but you don't want your life, or at least the worries that come with it. My biggest worry of the day is pretty much nothing, and I guess I want something more interesting.
I know this isn't comforting, but I would like to say I hope these bad feelings pass, because really that's all I know to say. Good Luck!!
I am so very sorry that you are going through this. Even though I don't know you, I wish there was something that I can do for you. I wish there was something I could say to make your burden bearable, but I don't. All I can say is that it is good for you to express your sadness through this journal. People who read this journal care about you, and you can be honest and forthright.
You have experienced great losses, and the expectations placed upon you are excessively high. It is unfair. I hope this gives you a small bit of comfort that others recognize this and feel compassion for you and what you have had to endure.
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Besides, according to cognitive theory, if you're very sad for a long time, then after a while you'll be content. >>;; I'm taking Muggle-y psychology... Tons of fun. Well, not really. My classmates are a bunch of opinionated back-talkers. Oh well!
But, I'm just saying that you should remember optimism. There's plenty of good left in the world, you just have to let the bad balance it out.
Love you! Take care!
- Kaci
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I know this isn't comforting, but I would like to say I hope these bad feelings pass, because really that's all I know to say. Good Luck!!
-Anna
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You have experienced great losses, and the expectations placed upon you are excessively high. It is unfair. I hope this gives you a small bit of comfort that others recognize this and feel compassion for you and what you have had to endure.
I will be thinking about you.
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"..feel like a have a dementor constantly looming over my shoulder." ha that made me laugh, sorry tho.
but your last sentence is very deep and lovely, in a sad way.
-i♥u-Ashley
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