sitting at the edge of frustration

[havoc41383]

i resently got a girlfriend, for those who know me it's an act on par with finding the 9th sheveron in stargate. unfortunatly as sweet as she is my insecurity's won't leave me be. i just texted her and see what time she wanted to hang out today and when i got her responce, instead of thinking to myself that she just wanted to get alittle more time

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[xxyotanxx]

Well, with this girlfriend especially, it seems, honesty is a good thing, but don't take it too far. Let her know you have some self esteem issues, but don't make it seem like it's her fault. Just let her know that you're dealing with a bunch of stuff and if you get worried about the situation, that it's just your insecurities, not anything she's done.

Doubt is a serious relationship killer, but I know that trust is a hard thing to come by when dealing with other people. All I'm saying is don't make her feel like she's the bad guy for not wanting to hang out, but do let her know that you've got natural insecurities. Just don't bring it up every time. n_n It's hard to balance out the insecurities with trusting her with the info, but once you find that balance, all is well.

[havoc41383]

i feel weird telling her "hey i have all the cofidence of a nat with a toothpick shoved through it" i wanna tell her what's going on but at this stage in the relationship i feel i would be more scaring her off then drawing her closer to me.