I was going to ask if you're sure that the disappearing act is intentional, and directed at you specifically...but then I re-read and it sounds like there was other stuff going on too.
It would be great if we got closure like that with all friendships/relationships..and for sure it's the "polite" thing to do so the other person isn't left wondering, but I guess it's possible you might not get that, even though EVERYONE deserves that. And, of course, it could be any one of those things you listed that's prevented this person from getting in contact with you so far.
But I'm sorry you're going through this. If it helps -- I don't really make or keep friends either. I kind of think it's just a part of life and doesn't really have to do with a "flaw" in personality. I hope this gets sorted out for you one way or another.
Thanks Kristen. They did get back into contact with me, coincidentally using some of the same things I listed as reasons for being out of contact. Not sure if that's the truth or not, and if me posting this had anything to do with the renewed contact or not- I don't know how far their stalker tendencies go, lol. But I'm trying (really, really hard!) to take this person at their word, and believe well of them, and to just... trust them. Trust is hard, but I hope it's worth it.
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I was going to ask if you're sure that the disappearing act is intentional, and directed at you specifically...but then I re-read and it sounds like there was other stuff going on too.
It would be great if we got closure like that with all friendships/relationships..and for sure it's the "polite" thing to do so the other person isn't left wondering, but I guess it's possible you might not get that, even though EVERYONE deserves that. And, of course, it could be any one of those things you listed that's prevented this person from getting in contact with you so far.
But I'm sorry you're going through this. If it helps -- I don't really make or keep friends either. I kind of think it's just a part of life and doesn't really have to do with a "flaw" in personality. I hope this gets sorted out for you one way or another.
*hugs*
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