Comments | heroine68: I have absolutely had it with this bullshit

heroine68

I have absolutely had it with this bullshit

Jul 16, 2009 18:47

I am not a fucking angel by any means, but when it comes to the way I deal with my friends, I really try to be as fair and non-dickish as possible. Even if I need to end a friendship, I try not to be a fucking douche. For the last year, I have said very little to anyone other than my very closest friends about the demise of a recent friendship. ( Read more... )

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bajingo July 17 2009, 02:55:59 UTC

It's beyond fucked up that you're in this position. I am so, so sorry that you're having to deal with this, and the obvious related stress.

heroine68 July 17 2009, 03:04:06 UTC

Thanks. It's been a year of bullshit, and I would really like it to end. But I think the only way to make that happen is to talk openly about what went on here.

mengus July 17 2009, 04:33:12 UTC

I certainly understand the desire to not talk bad on people, even ones that are doing really fucked up things behind the scenes. Sorry that you are dealing with a shitbird.

heroine68 July 17 2009, 05:46:52 UTC

I know you do. I feel like it'll just bee seen as "drama farming" (LOL), so I stay away from doing it if I can.

I'm really mystified by people who lie like this. Like people don't talk to each other and stuff! One friend related something she said - she told this person that she and I were no longer friends in part because one of my employees didn't like her and was influencing me. And the person who told me said something like "Anyone who has spent more than five minutes around you would know that this isn't true. You don't listen to anybody!"

I mean shit, if you're going to lie, exploit an element of my personality for extra believability points!

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lefin1 July 17 2009, 05:41:38 UTC

Hugs

heroine68 July 17 2009, 05:47:57 UTC

newfoundatari July 17 2009, 11:57:09 UTC

is it weird that i dont even know you yet i knew EXACTLY who you were talking about?

thats crazy, i cant stand highschool drama.
and thats exactly what shes doing reverting into a highschool frame of mind.

im sorry you are stuck dealing with it.

fordarkness July 18 2009, 16:45:20 UTC

little late on responding, but i just got around to reading the other post.

i find it extraordinarily baffling that she came out in her comments and admitted her faults and where she was wrong and how she effed up, but then over the past year she's been basically ignoring everything she said and backstabbing you again and again! what a raging twatbag!

are you going to confront her on this shit? yeesh. she doesn't deserve to be in the same business as you if she's running around causing trouble like this.

heroine68 July 18 2009, 17:20:41 UTC

I think it's telling that in her response, she admits to having the personality issues I outlined in my post, but she completely ignores everything I said about her lying, hatred of one of my employees, and her inappropriate behaviors. She made her comments into an "All about ME!" pity party, which is what she did EVERY time I tried to deal with her re: an issue.

In my opinion, it was a non-answer. We knew each other for 20 years, and she chose the "Oh you're right I totally have issues. Bye, now!" route instead of eventrying to talk about the things I brought up, even to deny it. Then, of course, she continues doing exactly what had caused me to write her off in the first place.

It's months later, but she still can't shut up about me, which is ironic in light of the fact that I couldn't get any meaningful dialogue going with her the entire last year of our friendship.

Whatever - when people put this kind of negativity out there, it's all they get in return. I'm a happy person, she's miserable.