Almost completely out of the blue yesterday, I was told by a man whom I don't even want to date or sleep with (although he sure as hell wants to get in my pants; sigh) that I'm not "relationship material
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A dude who wants to bone you who tells you you are not "relationship material" is doing so in the hopes that you will bone him in order to prove that you are relationship material.
Many of these guys have the whole "It's about how many girls I sleep around with, or whoever's pants I can get into easiest" mindset. Blunty put most of them are outright players, and not many of them have the balls to be completely honest about it.
Or, they could be like me and extremely indecisive and afraid to lose any opportunities or hurt someone, but chances are if they're outright telling you stuff like that, they're far too much of an arrogant, conceited asshole to be like me.
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What about the guys who have never said it to me outright but have conveyed it in the way they've treated me? That's baffled me more.
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Many of these guys have the whole "It's about how many girls I sleep around with, or whoever's pants I can get into easiest" mindset. Blunty put most of them are outright players, and not many of them have the balls to be completely honest about it.
Or, they could be like me and extremely indecisive and afraid to lose any opportunities or hurt someone, but chances are if they're outright telling you stuff like that, they're far too much of an arrogant, conceited asshole to be like me.
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