Comments | hollynycole: Long time

hollynycole

Long time

Apr 19, 2006 11:27

I've been having lots of dreams lately. And I can remember them at certain points in the day, and I can think of them as soon as I wake up, but as soon as I began this journal, they crept into a dark hiding place, where I cannot find them. Last night I tossed and turned. I hate it. However much I don't sleep though, I find myself that much more ( Read more... )

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cat_the_knife April 19 2006, 20:13:01 UTC

First of all, a couple of things. A relationship should never give you more to worry about. Having a partner in your life should help make life easier for you. It should mean having someone to lean on, someone who will help you if you are in trouble, and someone who supports you and stands behind you no matter what. Honestly, I feel that the person you are with romantically should feel like your best friend. If they feel like a stranger that you can't figure out, or like somebody who causes more problems for you than they solve by being in your life, it might be time to rethink the relationship.

Not that I'm saying "oh dump him dump him now". I'm not, but maybe it's time to take stock in the relationship and see what the positives and negatives are. It sounds really corny, but try sitting down and devoting a good chuck of time to making an actual list of pros and cons to being with Chet. It's amazing how actually having to sit down and list what you like or don't like about a situation can help you figure out how you really feel ( ... )

Holly misspriss36 April 19 2006, 20:33:23 UTC

I miss you so much. I have not been on here for ages. I am so sad to hear this is going on in your life. Holly you do deserve the love. I would feel that by now after a commitment that you have done of buying a home and everything that he would now know you totally were in this for a real relationship. I don't have any advice only that I am here for you. You have a great head on your shoulders and I know you will do the right thing, and regardless if you fly high or fall hard I know several people who are here to either applaud you flying or catch you if you are falling. Keep in touch. I care about you.