Do not for one second try to say that you do not have control over your own self. You choose your actions, you choose your emotions, and you in essence choose your consequences. You should be grateful that people who care about you as much as your family, don't want you to throw your life away. And I was dreading the day that I would have to tell you this, as I have told many many girls before, please...let this sink in, love is not something that just happens. It's a choice. A decision that one makes because they have a strong feeling for someone. It's not a mythical spell that comes in contact with one person when they're least expecting it. You make it happen, or don't. It's a personal decision, that just happens to have to be returned to eventually work out. Next, it's not that you didn't make decisions when you should have. You made them. Just the wrong ones. Like when you should have been spending time with your brother in Gainesville, friends in Gainesville, you chose to "take a nap" or "felt sick" or "watched a movie" with
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No one chooses to be in love, Michael. We make decisions that lead to that, yes, such as spending a lot of time with one person, etc... But that cannot make you fall in love. I spend a lot of time with people, and it doesn't mean I'm going to fall in love with them. It's two people completely connecting on another level. You can't play God and decide who should fall in love together, they tried that by arranged marraiges, remember? And we all know how well that worked out... And I am very well aware of the decisions I have made. I don't regret spending more time with Greg, and I was sick you asshole. Not like you show me ANY consideration either, remember kicking me out of your room to have sex? Yea, that was special, really
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You, like all of the other little girls do not know what love it. Do not for one second think that you know, or Master English Major Greg knows. You sound like you're paraphrasing some book. You sound like you're getting ideas for your life from some trashy Romance Novel. Granted, I don't read...So I don't have these kind of warped ideas of love. "Connecting on another level" Do you know how completely funny in a bad sense that sounds? It's something that a mommy and daddy teaches their 3 year old when they first hear someone mention the word. "Ok little one, this is how I'll explain it to you." That's a crock of shit. And I don't play God. I'm not arranging anything. They did that in 16th Century France. Not here. I'm simply telling you what is fucked up in your thought process. This is the clincher, ready? No, I don't know any specifics about your relationship with Greg. I don't have to. I know you. And I know how you act when you're with different people. I know how you act once you've seen him, how you treat other people once you'
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First of all, do not tell me that I don't know what love is. I'm not a little girl anymore Michael, I've grown up some. And don't try to knock Greg down for his major, he knows what he wants in life, and that's respectable. And he did have conversations with you, or at least tried to. You're not the easiest person to have a conversation with, you know, especially to one who's seeing me. Need I remind you of my freshman year, when you and Bryan answered the door in suits when Jimmy came to pick me up for the dance? Yea, you guys intimidate the hell out of people. I wouldn't want to fuckin talk to you
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There are a lot of Assholes out there including family members who do not care or know what people go through everyday. While I know i know nothing of your situation i still care and hope that you make it through it as a stronger person. Its true that true love, love of a friend only comes around a few times in a life time and you have to hold on to that. Friends are what kkep this world running. There are a lot of people running around out there who only give a crap about themselves and like to interject their opinions into everything because they believe the world revolves around them and that they are the no all to everything. All I can say is I hope for it to get better for you and I have an idea of what your going through and i know it hurts like HELL. I am a firm believer everything happens for a reason and maybe that reason will be a good one. You never know only time will tell. sincerely your friend, Paul Lowe
You two are rediculous. You talk about being grown up yet you two are arguing on this stupid message board thing. Why don't you both stop being assholes and argue like real people and call eachother up on the phone.
(P.S. Point for niki on the burn about sleeping with little girls...she's got a point, but I think Katie Stitely would get two points for the same comment in a similar conversation.)
Oh and you both are too goddamn stubborn and you're never gonna get anywhere, so it probably best you just stay out of eachothers buisiness for the next few weeks.
I'm not going to give my opinion on the whole thing for a few reason, not only would it piss both of you off, and greg too, but it's none of my damn buisiness, which is why you two should take this to a private forum such as the phone or face to face if you get a chance.
I love how you replied to someone else's (Russell?) post. You're smart. And I do pay for my own shit. That does not govern how mature I am however. Ass.
Michael - It seems like you have been hurt in the past. Possibly to the point where you tell yourself that there is no such thing as love. If this makes you feel better about getting hurt, well done. But leave your sister alone because love does exist, you just have to find the right person (or just not be an asshole). Sure, people get burned all the time, but that is no reason to lose belief in love. Instead, you should be happy for your sister, she seems to know what she is doing, and she is meeting new people to allow herself to possibly find someone else in Boston; if someone else does exist for her that is better than Gregory.
you obviously haven't read any of our conversations. please do not put words in my mouth. please read carefully my points above and if you have comments, maybe you want to ask me for a definition, do so. I'll help you out. i never said love does not exist. do not make stuff up. and most of all never tell me what to do with my own family. you obviously haven't listen to a word that was said, because my belief is that she SHOULD meet people in boston and hopefully find love. Greg is not love and that is the basis for conversation and argument.
none of you people can read. maybe you should go back and learn how to do that. i am not telling you who to love. because in the end, you will do whatever the hell you want. but i'm telling you, there will be serious repercussions if your choice is fucked up.
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sincerely
your friend,
Paul Lowe
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(P.S. Point for niki on the burn about sleeping with little girls...she's got a point, but I think Katie Stitely would get two points for the same comment in a similar conversation.)
Oh and you both are too goddamn stubborn and you're never gonna get anywhere, so it probably best you just stay out of eachothers buisiness for the next few weeks.
I'm not going to give my opinion on the whole thing for a few reason, not only would it piss both of you off, and greg too, but it's none of my damn buisiness, which is why you two should take this to a private forum such as the phone or face to face if you get a chance.
....Oh and GO RED SOX
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I love you both.
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Suicide - the perminent solution
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