so sad

[icechick4real]

 this is horrible. my boyfriend is crazy. he was suppose to meet me at my place for dinner. i went to have a cig and after i had my cig i went to go get a salad to eat, b/c i was getting light headed. so i went to the cafe, after i finsihed eating i saw one of my neighbors and i went to go talk to him. i sat down at his table and we just started

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[krina09]

This scenario reminds me a lot of what I just went through and what I'm currently going through. I tried to break up with my controlling, verbally and emotionally abusive ex and he tried to rape me. Ripping my clothes of...the whole shebang. Now I'm pressing charges, I'm going to have to go to court, and chances are he will get off scot-free cuz there wasn't any physical evidence. Be careful girl. Go with ur gut. If you ever feel scared of him, then it's a bad idea and get out now. Bad things may happen, but it's better than staying in that hell of a relationship!

[spyral_path]

You need to break up with him right now. It's only going to get worse. If he threatens to kill himself, it's not because you've done anything wrong, it's because he's trying to manipulate you. You are not responsible for his happiness. You need to take care of yourself, and he is nothing but bad for you.

[seyval]

Your boyfriend is abusive. Break up with him NOW and GET the restraining order. I am dead serious. My sister is a domestic violence expert (detective/police officer) and she helps women get these restraining orders all the time. It will seriously help to have your case documented and give you legal leverage to keep yourself protected from him. You're right - his abusive behavior will continue. Unfortunately it is also going to escalate.

[gothoutraverin]

oh honey . . . get the restraining order and get out of that situation! In your last post you were talking about how you've been dating this guy nearly 3 years. If it isn't the first time he's pulled this shit, you know it won't be the last.

This guy is seriously crazy, abusive, and controlling. Follow your gut instinct and call the cops. Nobody deserves to be treated like that, and if you get some of this documented and get the restraining order, you'll be that much closer to having him out of your life for good.