Comments | icybluefairy259: I don't know what to do

icybluefairy259

I don't know what to do

Apr 17, 2007 19:56

So there are two people that I really like right now. One of which I think about a lot and stare at their myspace pictures whenever I'm bored. I go online just to see if they're on. I have a lot of feelings for them, and I'm 95% sure that they feel the same way about me. The thing is, there are a lot of obstacles preventing us from having a ( Read more... )

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sweetkisses13 April 18 2007, 01:47:07 UTC

That sounds like a very hard situation honey. I'm sure whatever happens it meant for a reason.

I'm so happy that your going back to college.

I want to go to your party!!

*Hugs*

xvogodovx April 18 2007, 11:27:06 UTC

that's not a very helpful answer...

sweetkisses13 April 18 2007, 14:01:43 UTC

I never claimed to have the right answer. I was being a bit sympathetic.

tombstonetcs April 18 2007, 04:03:04 UTC

I'd say don't get too attached to Person #1. He'll be gone soon, and you'll only get hurt. If you convince him to stay, it could potentially be bad for both of you. Unless you're really sure, I'd say keep an emotional distance from Person #1.
You should have a serious talk with Person #2. Be sure that they know where you're at, and you know how they really feel.
Honestly, you might do well to have some time by yourself. It may hurt to hear it, but being alone at the moment might be what you really need.
I'm terrible with relationships myself, so don't put too much stock in my advice. Just know I'm here for you, if you need to talk more on this subject.

icybluefairy259 April 18 2007, 04:38:54 UTC

give me a call whenever and i'll let you know the whole story if you want. or IM me or something. do you have aim?

xvogodovx April 18 2007, 11:28:11 UTC

i dunno
if these are the two people you were talking about earlier
go with whoever makes you happiest
even if that means not being there physically
::shrug::
i dunno
no sex IS a bad thing though...

girlxlnterupted April 18 2007, 18:36:40 UTC

who cares.

just be a hooker instead

sdratsabesoht April 18 2007, 22:07:53 UTC

I'm in a long distance relationship right now, and it's really really really really difficult. But it's okay, because I love Jeremy to death. It also depends on HOW far away he would be. Personally, I could never make my boyfriend choose his life based on me, so maybe you don't want to do that with a guy you'd be beginning to date. If you decide on this guy, you have to really want to be with him.

As for the other person, maybe hang out with him some more times to feel him out and see if he likes you back.

If person1 is great enough to maintain a long-distance relationship, choose him. If not, consider Person 2. I hope that helped.

-Audrey (Jessie's friend)