eH! Wrong... you failed by showing up in the first place (knowing what temptation was waiting for you)... Then, you flaunt your incosiderate pride by taking her out for coffee; think you were being a gentleman by letting her down easy. And, I bet you didn't even call your betrothed in hopes of ever forgetting the situation you were in that night. You, my friend, hit the trifecta of every ridiculous male mistake on such an occasion. You might as well have slept with her, then pled the 5th.
i beg to differ, sir. first and foremost, she is a friend. she has been a friend before i ever met my betrothed. It just so happens that she's going through a divorce and is probably in need of some companionship. Second, he is also in need of a friend. She lost most of her friends from her split with her hubby due to extenuating circumstances such as them working for the same company. Third, I could have made a move but i didn't. I needed to know for myself that i could say no to a smoking latina. Last, but not the least important, my conscience is clear. harboring thoughts to commit a crime does not equate to committing it.
As my personal opinion, I do not disagree with what you did. I was just throwing a valid debate of morality out there. According to the bible of course; in which also makes clear that even the thought of lust is an act of sin).
What you did was humane. You were there. She chose you, and as her friend, you were committed. I would have done the same. But, to have used it in a selfish manner to prove moral fiber? That's where I contested you with outside conjecture (on-the-record kind of stuff).
To tell you the truth, I'm actually glad you didn't make a move. Sure, we would have had our laughs and wits about it, but, in the end, I would have been disappointed.
if thoughts were sins, i'm irredeemable. The irony was that i was reading dante's inferno. the book that outlines the seven layers of hell. boy, i'm in manyu layers of that hell. and in my mind she had been had at least seven ways.
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...tisk tisk tisk.
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What you did was humane. You were there. She chose you, and as her friend, you were committed. I would have done the same. But, to have used it in a selfish manner to prove moral fiber? That's where I contested you with outside conjecture (on-the-record kind of stuff).
To tell you the truth, I'm actually glad you didn't make a move. Sure, we would have had our laughs and wits about it, but, in the end, I would have been disappointed.
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