Yea, I am so glad I am not the "of honor" kind. I would probably die. And you me and Adam may have to form a tricycle for awhile, because I will be that loser friend who doesn't have anyone to hang out with.
life is weird, isn't it? it feels like it was just yesterday that we were being silly little girls at 6th grade camp and worrying about boys and the next dance. life is like a roll of toilet paper that speeds up as it unwinds...
Megan....sometimes I wonder how you can be so brave. You take everything the military throws at you in stride and you come out the other side unscathed. Me and chaz are having major issues with me going to Europe for a month, but I seriously just keep telling myself "megan does this times 7, so I can do this for a month". seriously though...I actually say that to myself. I didn't want to sound like a big lesbian before and tell you how much I admire you for how strong you are when the love of your life is gone for months and months....but I do...so much. You're a very brave woman. I could never do what you do.
but with the rest of life...we've managed it this far and we didn't think we'd be prepared for it...so I think, even if it doesn't seem like you're ready, the day will come and you'll magically be able to handle it. I promise. :)
I miss you, megan. Between working full time, school, and matt....if you have free time, call me and we should hang out.
Danielle!!! You totally made me cry!!! In no way do I feel brave or strong... seriously, most of the days I feel weak and lonely. My only advice I can give you and Chaz is to take it day by day, and know that everyday you are away, you are one day closer to being home. But make sure, neither of you put your lives on hold, because you will regret that you both didn't live your lives to the fullest, even if the other one is not there to share those experiences with you. It is still important to go out and have fun, live life to the fullest and grow...just remember to share that growth and the stories with the one you love upon your return. Never feel guilty for not being able to call, never wait by the phone, but always keep them in your thoughts. It will never be easy, but it is life and you will both grow from the experience of being apart, and discovering more about who you are, and what you enjoy.
I love you lady, and I definately want to hang out with you soon. Give Chaz my love.
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And you me and Adam may have to form a tricycle for awhile, because I will be that loser friend who doesn't have anyone to hang out with.
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It is insane to me that you are now going to be some kids teacher, you will be the one molding and shaping minds, thats nuts!!
Im glad we have men in our lives that make us happy and are good for our souls. I miss you!!
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I didn't want to sound like a big lesbian before and tell you how much I admire you for how strong you are when the love of your life is gone for months and months....but I do...so much. You're a very brave woman. I could never do what you do.
but with the rest of life...we've managed it this far and we didn't think we'd be prepared for it...so I think, even if it doesn't seem like you're ready, the day will come and you'll magically be able to handle it. I promise. :)
I miss you, megan. Between working full time, school, and matt....if you have free time, call me and we should hang out.
peace. danielle.
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I love you lady, and I definately want to hang out with you soon. Give Chaz my love.
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