hah i seriously went through the same thing over a year ago(when i was also 19). i dumped my bf of three years because i hooked up with zac (the guy im with and engaged too now). my ex got extremely creepy, clingy, and started arguements with me constantly. eventually i blocked him on aim and made it clear to him i didnt want to talk to him anymore because he clearly couldnt handle talking to me. at first i wanted to be friends with him, but because of how he acted when we broke up, i REALLY would prefer not too.
if you need help figuring some things out im a pretty good resource these days XD
and its natural to feel kinda scared about wanting a new relationship right after the old one. you have to wonder, "am i dependant on relationships?", "is it wrong of me to have lost feelings for him so fast and gained feelings for this new guy so quickly" think about you and your old guy. were you guys really ok for eachother? what is it about this new guy that you enjoy so much more?
OMG. those questions that you just wrote, i ask myself the EXACT same one's. i really do think i am dependent on relationships, but is that a bad or good thing? i don't know. believe it or not, me and nick were perfect, our relationship was so close to being perfect- i think i just got bored honestly. I felt like I wasn't going out and doing what a 19-year-old college student SHOULD be doing, I was sitting at home every night with my boyfriend practically married. Now that I am single and just "seeing" people, I feel free for the first time.
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i dumped my bf of three years because i hooked up with zac (the guy im with and engaged too now). my ex got extremely creepy, clingy, and started arguements with me constantly.
eventually i blocked him on aim and made it clear to him i didnt want to talk to him anymore because he clearly couldnt handle talking to me.
at first i wanted to be friends with him, but because of how he acted when we broke up, i REALLY would prefer not too.
if you need help figuring some things out im a pretty good resource these days XD
and its natural to feel kinda scared about wanting a new relationship right after the old one. you have to wonder, "am i dependant on relationships?", "is it wrong of me to have lost feelings for him so fast and gained feelings for this new guy so quickly"
think about you and your old guy. were you guys really ok for eachother?
what is it about this new guy that you enjoy so much more?
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