I can see what you're saying. It's easy to judge people for doing things you've never done, until you do them yourself. And then you realize it's never as simple as you thought it was.
I mean, I used to be the abstinence-only girl. Until I had sex.
Now I definitely don't judge people for having sex anymore, or doing just about anything else.
You're right about being more unconventional than a lot of us, but to me that's not a bad thing! You don't need to feel ashamed of it, or like you don't fit in. It's what's interesting and fun about you.
Just know I really love you, no matter what changes you go through in your life. (And I'm sure the others would agree.)
And even if you don't feel like broadcasting everything you do on LJ anymore (you wouldn't be the only one) you can still talk to me. I mean, we can still be friends.
thanks abby. really. its nice to know my unconventionalness is understood or appreciated. a lot of the time i just feel like the black sheep who does things differently that my friends. im sharing a phone number with nick now its 5743093238. please don't advertise. anyone on lj im fine with having it. but some other people, not so much. love you.
to both of you. Val, you are absolutely right, women may have more "rights" now, but we are still treated wrongly. We are amazing, spiritual, beings and our society cast us as sex objects who of course have no business having sex, but are only there to be stared at, so that our real power might be covered up. Lame.
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It's easy to judge people for doing things you've never done,
until you do them yourself.
And then you realize it's never as simple as you thought it was.
I mean, I used to be the abstinence-only girl.
Until I had sex.
Now I definitely don't judge people for having sex anymore, or doing just about anything else.
You're right about being more unconventional than a lot of us, but to me that's not a bad thing! You don't need to feel ashamed of it, or like you don't fit in. It's what's interesting and fun about you.
Just know I really love you, no matter what changes you go through in your life. (And I'm sure the others would agree.)
And even if you don't feel like broadcasting everything you do on LJ anymore (you wouldn't be the only one) you can still talk to me. I mean, we can still be friends.
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really.
its nice to know my unconventionalness is understood or appreciated.
a lot of the time i just feel like the black sheep who does things differently that my friends.
im sharing a phone number with nick now
its 5743093238.
please don't advertise. anyone on lj im fine with having it. but some other people, not so much.
love you.
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Val, you are absolutely right, women may have more "rights" now, but we are still treated wrongly.
We are amazing, spiritual, beings and our society cast us as sex objects who of course have no business having sex, but are only there to be stared at, so that our real power might be covered up.
Lame.
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