I keep finding myself agravated at situation that I am in control of... and keep expecting change from other people when all it would require is a simple adjustment of attiitude or action on my part.
hehe. Happens to me all the time. It really infuriates me that calicokitten isn't better at reading my mind in situations like those. Inexcusable that the world doesn't think exactly like I do.
Of course, the 3rd option is to just express your desires, thereby enlisting the aid of your SO in fulfilling them before your become frustrated. For me, this has a high success rate... As long as I can figure out how to articulate what I want before getting crabby 'cause I ain't getting it. Which is tougher than it sounds.
I remember Ender's Game, but don't connect that word with it.
Of course, my favorite response to this frustration is to pout or growl silently and internally, knowing that it's plenty loud enough for them to hear. KNOWING.
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hehe. Happens to me all the time. It really infuriates me that calicokitten isn't better at reading my mind in situations like those. Inexcusable that the world doesn't think exactly like I do.
Of course, the 3rd option is to just express your desires, thereby enlisting the aid of your SO in fulfilling them before your become frustrated. For me, this has a high success rate... As long as I can figure out how to articulate what I want before getting crabby 'cause I ain't getting it. Which is tougher than it sounds.
I remember Ender's Game, but don't connect that word with it.
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