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papa_donna March 24 2006, 20:41:05 UTC
{{{kay}}}

use your head, missy ... with your heart's influence, of course.

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inkednurse March 24 2006, 20:50:10 UTC
it's the heart part that is kickin my ass. Thanks, D, I appreciate the love.

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papa_donna March 24 2006, 20:52:33 UTC
i have all kinds of love you you, sweet-pea ...

just don't let your heart have the final say- hearts are pretty stupid.

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slvrtonguedevil March 24 2006, 20:59:05 UTC
I'm schizo-effective, which includes every disorder you just mentioned above and then some basically... if she's on the RIGHT meds, then yes she does live in the same reality as everyone else.

As for working, if she has been hospitalized that many times within 2 yrs, her psychiatrist might have declared her unable to work. Like with me, I'm not allowed to work... especially with the public.

Just be careful.

- R.

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oh how i adore you! inkednurse March 24 2006, 21:16:19 UTC
Ryan...her psych WANTS her to work. It is amazing to me that she "just can't". She is on more meds than I can name and believes that all things can be cured chemically. WTF! Take ownership of your disease, learn about it and manipulate your life around it if necessary. (not you...her)

Thank you for your kind words and thoughts. *muah*

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just as a passer byer... thecactuskid March 29 2006, 05:30:15 UTC
am i allowed to ask you a very honest question?

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Re: just as a passer byer... inkednurse March 29 2006, 14:49:14 UTC
ask away...I'm pretty open

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grateful2day March 24 2006, 21:23:19 UTC
Yup, that's a tought situation. Rule #1...take care of #1 (which is you). Sounds like she needs to make a choice...ASAP. I know, easier said than done, but at some point something's gotta change for your sake.

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inkednurse March 24 2006, 22:34:46 UTC
Thank you for your kind words. I do appreciate them.

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invisible_ninja March 24 2006, 21:34:19 UTC
From my experience, people like that just don't go away because you break up with them. People like this generally have control issues, and the financial thing is just another way to control the partner.

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inkednurse March 24 2006, 22:36:11 UTC
I really don't care of this woman is still a part of Jacs' life. They have together raised a couple of the g/f's kids for the past 4 years and Jacs wants to be a part of their lives so I imagine we'll always see this ex.

Thank you, Linc

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syrynn March 24 2006, 22:14:18 UTC
I agree with grateful and fatboy on this one, Twinsie my sweet..

There is a level in which you both need to feel embraced by the want/need/ability to be with one another. In a sideways perspective, the "non-determined" timeline probably is causing *her* problems too..which would be even more reason to establish a long-term "goal oriented" decision between the two of you.

For both of your sanities and sakes.

Call me tonight if you can girly..I'm hittin' that scary movie about the video game at five thirty or so my time..but I'll be home by eight at the latest on my end. If it's too late for you, hit me up in the morning. I'll be home..cleaning like my ass was on fire. ;)

Love you plenty 'nough to say that it's damn near pornographic. ;)
--The Syrynn

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inkednurse March 24 2006, 22:37:38 UTC
There definitely is that level and I agree.

I will be in bed by 8pm your time cuz I gotta work this weekend. Let's plan on Monday night around 8 your time.

Love you more than my hairdresser,
~K

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syrynn March 24 2006, 22:47:10 UTC
Sweet. I'll be home daaaarling..

Call if you need me. You know where I'm at. :)

--The Syrynn

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