Update

[irish2483]

so update to this http://community.livejournal.com/beautifulcurves/3961432.html

A friend of mine hung out with him this weekend, was flirty and cuddling with her while watching a movie.  Now she is not anorexic, but she's not as big as me.  So then on Monday he emails her and is like, "I'm not romantically attracted to you, you have a cute face and

Comments

[oneloveonelight]

I swear, not all men are like that. Most of the men I hang with are awesome and love curves. My husband likes it too and even told me when I was complaining about gaining 20 pounds in one year, he said "Sometimes I wonder if I subconsciously wanted you to gain the weight and that's why I'd bring food home for no reason, so you'd gain a few pounds." Interesting theory but I'm still going to lose this weight (just a little, I am tired of being out of shape

[angelofsaturn]

Well that wasn't a man as much as he was a little boy.
Men appreciate women no matter what size they are.
I'm way bigger than my fiance(7 inches taller and at least 100 lbs heavier) but he tells me that I'm the most beautiful woman that he's ever seen.
Not to mention I get hit on by random dudes but that might be more of a boob at eye level thing.

I know I need to lose a few pounds but I'm gonna do it for me and not for anyone else.
I'm not spending my life w/ everyone else so why should I care?
I'd made myself sick to the point I couldn't eat b/c I was so concerned w/ what other people thought of me.

If they don't like me they don't have to look at me and that's all I have to say.

And trying to have kids w/ someone who you think has superior genes usually backfires.
Recessive genes and all of that so you can tell that to your friend so she can tell it to the meathead.

SUPERFICIAL

[maggs7457]

For starters thanks for backing me up.... Border line big girl,, im not sure if that is a compliment or not lol... And of course i stress about my weight and care about what i look like, but i dont go around broadcasting it to other people becuase its my own problem not anyone elses, but in a few months that will all change....:) but just wanted to say thanks...and yes some men are just assholes....*shrug*

Re: SUPERFICIAL

[irish2483]

you're smaller then me, but still have some meat on your bones. I guess it just depends on who you ask, some would say you're average, I don't know its all confusing.

[lovekrissy]

all i have to say is...

ASSHAT! ;)

p.s. i'm on the lookout from what we talked about earlier! ;)

[lovekrissy]

p.s. maybe i'll text roe tomorrow! ;)